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ms. work in progress

@anastasia-only

27F. trans :) like girls so much i became one. here because the locked tomb subreddit doesn't have enough going on
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Bro, I’m not joking, we NEED more butch representation in media. Its not enough to have a skinny woman with short hair, we need like, actual butch lesbian content in mass media productions and I don’t know who I have to shake and scream at to get it. Probably 0.01% of queer representation in media are actually butch, and the ones that are are weirdly stereotyped as cops or assholes (somethings butch lesbians have been getting since the dawn of time). Most butches are pretty sweet! That desrves to be reflected

Demand butch rep. Demand good butch rep.

some people masturbate for pleasure. others out of boredom. me? i masturbate to save all of california from a devastating earthquake

by the way i think we really need to start being less afraid of recognizing when other trans people are chasers so that we can support each other and move away from that shit. like yeah t4t is great and i love it but we should also be able to say hey wait a second your girlfriend doesnt like those ‘masculine’ traits why are you so focused on them? like we managed to see this when it came to rcdart we can do it in our more meaningful communities

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some tme trans people are very open about being attracted to trans women, and while I think on the whole this is a good thing, a lot of the time it manifests in particularly transmisogynistic ways. relatively few trans women actually want to be a tall aggressive dominatrix with a massive cock because, unsurprisingly, that can cause a lot of dysphoria. and that’s not even to mention that many trans women who are on hormones can’t be that even if they do actually want to be since estrogen atrophies the penis, making it smaller and less likely to stay erect long enough to penetrate. but some people don’t want to acknowledge those things, because it breaks the illusion they have where we’re all sexy butches with a built in strap.

being sexually attracted to trans women is great, I encourage it (we are hot as fuck after all), but it needs to come with an understanding that we are people with our own sexual preferences and desires, just like anyone else.

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ive seen multiple tme trans ppl who almost exclusively date tma trans ppl use some line like “how could i be a chaser? i’m trans!” and its like yeahhhhhhhh ummmhh but the problem is how you objectify your tma partners, talk over them, disrespect them, trade one for the next, and then slander them after you break up with them. also these ppl tend to b really skilled at like tactical guilt tripping & dysphoria triggering to avoid any sort of real acknowledgement of privilege.

a huge barrier to talking about this is that right off the bat there is a general refusal to engage with transfeminism or acknowledge that people who are not transfems have privilege over transfems.

until this is a standard understanding (along with the nuances that come with it), addressing TME trans people’s shittiness just wont work.

[image description: a photo of two people holding hands, dancing together in a field. they wear jeans and white button-ups.

one, in the foreground, has dark hair cut into a bob. they have one arm reaching forwards towards the camera, and the other reaching back to hold their partner’s hand. their head is turned to look at their partner - their face cannot be seen.

the other has long blonde hair tied in a single braid. their eyes are closed, their expression is solemn. they have one arm reaching up towards the sky and one leg lifted off the ground.

the grass is long, the sky is pale. end ID.]

Sending love to people whose dysphoria is debilitating. There is hope, and your feelings matter completely. We'll get through everything together, you have people by your side, and while this doesn't mean you can't be dysphoric, it does mean you aren't alone. You aren't alone.

screaming and crying over how cute this is 😭😭😭

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[ID: the pictures of a heart-shaped pink pot that's white on the inside, standing on top of a white furry blanket. To it's right lays a wooden cooking spoon with a white head that has dozens of tiny red hearts on it. In the left picture, the pot is closed. And in the right picture, the pot is open. /ID end]