Sometimes people use “respect” to mean “treating someone like a person” and sometimes they use “respect” to mean “treating someone like an authority”
and sometimes people who are used to being treated like an authority say “if you won’t respect me I won’t respect you” and they mean “if you won’t treat me like an authority I won’t treat you like a person”
and they think they’re being fair but they aren’t, and it’s not okay.
This is so well put I am stunned
The Vows
"Ashlyn, you're eternally captivating to me, I love everything I know about you now and I trust that as we learn and grow together even as time and life changes us, I will love you more everyday. I, Ali, choose you. Especially in that custom tux. I choose you to be none other but your badass self. I’ll respect you and cherish you as an individual, a partner and an equal, knowing that we do not complete…but compliment eachother. I vow, to be a loving and devoted wife without judgment, without lovelessness but always with a open heart and mind. You’ve stand by me throught the best and the worst and love all that I am, you helped me to be the finest version of me than I am. You are my favorite bestfriend, I promise to support your dreams, to push you, to inspire you. I love you unconditionally, without hesitation. We really are the A team."
- Alexandra Krieger
"Ali, I vow to love you, encourage you, trust you and respect you. I promise to listen to you and learn from you. As time and life change us both I promise to grow with you, knowing that together we will build a life far better than either of us could imagine alone. I promise to support you, to nurture your dreams, to help you chase them, to respect you as a person, as my partner and most importantly as my equal. I promise to love you for who you are, and for who you are yet to become, I promise to be patient, and to remember that all things between us are rooted in love. I have called you many things over the years but today my dreams come true, today I get to call you my wife, and I will cherish and honor that until my last breath. Ali, I choose you. It has always been you. Today, I give you my heart, my soul and my love. Now, forever and always. I love you."
- Ashlyn Harris
literally us gays growing up and trying to relate to something
I enjoy photographing only one dude so fix this….
Fixed :)
Hot mic at England vs Czech Republic game catches commentators talking MAD shit about Jaelene Hinkle
OH MY 🤣🤣😂😂🤣😂😂😂😂😂😂
gay people: historically, we’ve always existed.
the cishets: *shit themselves in confusion*
Kelley is out there living her best life giving zero fucks and we love it
Sources: Kelley's Instagram, isi photos, marcio marchado for getty, jb lacroix for getty







