Finally learning how to finesse the plug 🤗. I'll let you talk and talk and talk. Let's hope I get some money starting small but you gotta start somewhere. By the way some men definitely love thick brown babies. Ask me how I know 😈😈. Be confident in your shit and do your thing. There's room for everyone 😇
Maybe if I reblog it it will become the truth
i reblog this everytime
This is the magic a$ap, if you don’t reblog it this will be the first year you’re broke
Always reblog
don’t fuckin let me down asap.
🙏🏾🙏🏾
Let’s goooooo 😭 someone come w me lol
Me!!!!
Trying to get sd to buy me tickets 😂
Me in August 😁😁
how do you respond to a pot when he asks you how you "like to be spoiled"
Well, this could turn into a long opened ended discussion. There are many ways to be spoiled. Such as financially, materialistically, spiritually and sexually etc.
It’s probably safe to say that you’d prefer to tell him that you’d like to be spoiled either monetarily or materialistically, and believe it or not, there are ways to go about this, that come off less “gold-diggerish”. I wouldn’t advise just flat out saying you want money!
Personally, if I were given a choice, I would prefer to be spoiled with money. It doesn’t matter if it comes in the form of cash, a certified cheque, an email transfer or as a prepaid visa etc and for these reasons:
1) Priorities. Having cash, enables me to accomplish my goals quicker and to keep my priorities in check. A new computer is nice, but if I have to pawn it off to pay my car insurance bill…what good has that done for me?
2) Freedom. It gives me a sense of freedom, that I am able to look after things instead of just at things, and can plan for a rainy day.
3) Control. It limits his amount of control over me. He doesn’t get to decide what I will do with the money, he has allotted for me. Trust me, they always think of it as their money, even when it’s in our hands. No man wants to know that we are going shopping for an outfit to wear with some other guy with the money they gave us. It not only gives me control over how I use it to help myself, but in how I am able to help others, such as with my family, boyfriends, charities or friends
4) Things change. What I want now, may be a waste of a $1,000 in a year or two. Items depreciate in value, and we (people) are notorious for always wanting the biggest, fastest, prettier version of what we have now. Plus, things become broken, stolen, misplaced and are most often underused. That same $1,000 in my bank, whether its invested or saved, will still be there…except it will have increased in value.
Now, as for asking to be spoiled financially or materialistically, which ever you choose, you can go about it by mentioning things similar to this:
“How do you want to be spoiled?”
1) Well, to be honest, I’d like to be spoiled financially. It gives me a sense of freedom that I find to be liberating. It takes the stress away from having to work so many hours while trying to study for school at the same time.
2) Actually, I’d like to be spoiled with material gifts. The allowance that you are (will be) giving me, is enough to take care of all of my expenses. So it would be really sweet of you to surprise me with items that I maybe can not afford for myself. I can give you a list if it’ll help?
3) This is a tough question. I would love to be spoiled both financially and with material gifts. But it’s just not feasible because I still live at home. In order for me to avoid my parents/boyfriend asking me a lot of questions about the gifts that you will give me, its simply smarter to chose financially, for now. Imagine if I started to give you gifts that you had to try to hide from your wife/co-workers etc? Its just extra stress that you and I don’t really need. This is supposed to be fun right! Since I keep my finances separate, its a more private way of being spoiled, because I can use it to buy myself gifts that I know my parents won’t suspect anything about.
4) To be honest, I’m content in our arrangement, and I feel blessed with the allowance that you currently give me. I’d like to leave it up to you to surprise me! Of course, I can drop little hints for certain things that catch my eye here and there, or I can make you a quick list of items that I’ll need next semester for school/work? I’m sure along the way, that something will pop up that I may need a little extra help with financially, such as car trouble or maybe a flight to see my best friend for a weekend (who just happens to live in NY or Vegas lol)? Maybe you can help me with that?
5) Listen, we’re both adults and although I’m a reserved girl, I’ve never been too shy to go after what I want. And I want you. I want us to work and have a great arrangement. To put it bluntly, I’ll take care of you sexually while you take care of me financially. It’s a win-win because I doubt that you want me to buy you a new dress or treat you to a spa day? Lol.
With the last one #5, I’m just throwing it out there, because 9x out of 10…we know what line is coming next, “I’ll spoil you, if you spoil me” ugh lol. I hope that helps. Regardless of what ever it is that you want, either in the moment or for the future, whether its money, gifts or sex, the best thing to do is to tell him, before its too late and he makes the decision for you!
Good luck ;)
Responding to a POT asking “How do you like to be spoiled?”
☕️☕️
I’m sure this question may annoy the hell out of you babies, so I came up with an answer that worked. I hope this may work for you ladies as well..
🔑🔑
The Money Tubbs only comes around every 5628 seconds. Reblog the Money Tubbs and you’ll find money!
🙏🏾🙏🏾
The Money Tubbs only comes around every 5628 seconds. Reblog the Money Tubbs and you’ll find money!
🤑🤑
#sugarbaby #din din
Hmmm I think tonight will be interesting to say the least. I know I’ll be getting a good meal. Let’s call him Mr Sushi because be Japanese lol. I’ll let y'all know how it does 😊
THE MANIFESTO
The Mantra
I am a woman of the highest caliber, and I deserve only the best. I am providing a valuable luxury service to men who do not deserve me and have to earn me by funding me and treating me like the lady I am. No man who would act entitled to my time, my company, or my body deserves it.
THE PRAYER
Our Sugar Gods which art in heaven, Hallowed be thy Name. Thy Sucrose come. Thy will be done on Rodeo Drive, As it On Fifth Avenue. Give us this day our daily allowance. And forgive Not the Salty, As we throw Shade on those that would Wish Salt against us. And lead us not into poverty or Frustration, But deliver us from Splenda. For thine is the Money, The power, and the respect, For ever and ever. Amen
Amen! 🙏
I LOVE the prayer! Amen, y'all!
Yessss Amben 🙌🏽
🙏🏿🙏🏿
what a great way to start my morning <3 <3 Amen.
Yasssss amen 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
As you never know when you need a spare ace in your back pocket. Plus, instead of being rude and having them come back at you rudely, this may just be an opportunity to further see if you can come to a better arrangement?
1. I’m sorry but it is not a priority for me at this time.
2. My schedule is up in the air right now, I’ll need time to sort this out.
3. I would prefer if you could offer another option.
4. I don’t love your proposal, which means I’m not the right person for it.
5. I love your suggestion, but my intuition is telling me that I’m not the person to accept this.
6. I would love to say yes to everything, but I’m not comfortable compromising that much.
7. Thank you for the explanation of your requirements. There most definitely is a person who would accept this arrangement. Unfortunately, I am not the person.
8. My instincts tell me that I am not suitable for this arrangement.
9. I am seeking an arrangement that is equally balanced to please both parties, and what you have offered would leave my happiness less than desirable.
10. Thank you for your time, I’ve enjoyed our communication, however, I do not feel that it is in our best interests to accept this proposal.
Be nice even when they are rude, as you never know when they are testing you, and when it could come back to haunt you!
I have had low ball and strange offers, politely declined them, only to have them come back with a seriously better offer as I handled myself as a lady ;)
👏🏾
Trust me, if you look like money you attract money.
I feel like ny is so salty! #brownsugarybabyproblem I love your blog by the way 😘 get money bish
I wanted to share some info on getting a DBA and how it’s helped me. A DBA stands for “doing business as.” So for example Katy Perry’s real name is Katy Hudson, but she does business as her stage name which is Katy Perry.
You can get a DBA from your county clerk’s office. Mine cost about $40. You put your sugar name as the name you wish to conduct business as. I’ve used this to check into hotels that were put under my sugar name. I’ve used this to open a bank account so that my SD can write me checks using my sugar name. I have yet to use it to fly with, but I’ve heard other girls say they’ve done it without a problem. Hope this helps!
Off to the Big Apple this morning! Those early morning flights kill me, however , early bird catches the bird. I don’t know if I ever told you ladies this but I’ve met this man off of Tinder. We have been talking for a while and he decided to fly me out for a weekend. We shall see how this goes!!! I can careless about first class on this trip. Yes the seat is 9A, I’m picky, I wanted a window seat so I can sleep!
You know I live women. Let's meet. Send me a message 🤗🤗😉😉
I am thinking about hosting a dinner party in NYC when I get there! Who’s in NY? Show your faces, I want to meet you and freestyle! :) Reblog if you’re from NYC. I will be there from Jan 22-25th.
🙋🏾🙋🏾🙋🏾
Yasssssssssssss.
I seriously need a sugar bestie like NOW! I have so much shit to tell that goes on in my day to day life pertaining to sugaring I can’t keep it in anymore lol
Ugh the life of a loner💁🏽
Do we have to live in the same statelol
Where you at boo? I’m in NYC:)
I'm in nyc 🤔🤔
Abusers will never give you the answers or the validation you crave. They will never express the remorse you long for them to feel.
Let them go.
Needed this
when you’re at your sugar daddy’s funeral and realize he left everything to you
Lol
Ha
So I’m pretty sure my best friend is bailing on me for our Europe trip…
😫😔😑
Waahhhh after all that hard work 😢😢😢. Hopefully she follows through
