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All This and Tea!

@allthisandtea / allthisandtea.tumblr.com

Molly, 41, she/they. Cosplayer, library person, fashion enthusiast. Fat, genderqueer, fabulous, more than occasionally charming and/or witty. Numerous sideblogs--just ask! https://archiveofourown.org/users/singswithtrees/works -- My AO3  

Hey who wants to commission a couple icons off me so I can afford tears of the kingdom?

Black and white icons are $25, color is $35. Send me a ref pic 😘 blease all my other comms are going to my gas bill this month

Psst commissions are still open

$35 for colored icons, $25 for black and white

Larger pieces like this start at $85

Little doodles like this start at $15 💖

I take Paypal and cashapp 😘

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It's that time again and commissions are open! Very excited to get back to drawing all of your characters.

If you’re interested, please read my Terms and Conditions [here], and then fill out my commission request form [here]. It’s not first come first serve. If you don’t get a slot this round, I can also put you on my waiting list.

Prices listed here the base rate for one character and are in $USD. For more complex requests, a quote will be provided in my follow up email based on the information provided on the form.

If you’d like to support my work but can’t swing a commission, I also have a patreon that operates on a pay-what-you-wish monthly subscription, and a ko-fi for a one-time tip jar. Or a book I wrote about an evil house you could buy.

Thank you kindly for all of your support! Signal boosts appreciated, as well.

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June 1st 2023 - Commissions now open!

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Nadja in the spotlight <3

This week required some self-indulgent art, so here's an old sketch from the met gala all painted up.

This is ur local skimbly telling you that if you're comfortable reading academic style writing, you should really really really pick up Dr. Jules Gill-Peterson's 2018 book Histories of the Transgender Child. She explores the history of trans youth in the US through the 20th century, with open acknowledgement of both intersex medicalization and the racialization of pathology in terms of both intersexuality and the trans experience, and is openly critical of our medical framework of identity, with the historical reasoning to back this up.

From her site:

Histories of the Transgender Child is the first book of its kind, uncovering a century of the hidden history of transgender children. Shattering the widespread myth that today's transgender children are a brand new generation, Jules Gill-Peterson shows how modern transgender medicine, as well as the very concept of gender itself, depend upon the often invisible medicalization of trans and intersex children's presumed biological plasticity.
Through a trans of color critique of medicine and its archive, Histories of the Transgender Child shows how the medical model built in a racial divide through plasticity, by design disqualifying black and trans of color children from access to care and support, setting the strict gatekeeping boundaries of the medical field that have harmed trans people for decades. The histories of trans children Gill-Peterson has brought to light open up an array of possibilities for reimagining today’s clinic by learning to listen to what trans children know about themselves, grounding medical care in the recognition of their selfhood, and critiquing binary models of transition and dysphoria.

Similar trans/queer of color writings can be found underneath the option of purchase

Those who know me: I get to go to a festival and portray a fey creature of some sort for four days. What kind of fey would you say I am, or would be good at portraying?

Now I want to go through my spring and summer stuff and put together fey-Mamma-going-camping outfits...

(Suggestions as to what this would look like gratefully accepted.)

I'm very tempted by this: https://www.orchardcorset.com/products/waist-training-corsets-steel-boned-underbust-plus-size-mesh-corset-cs-201

Either color really, for Mamma. 🤔

I think suggestions depend fully on what version of Fey creature fits the Festival because expectations vary widely. Because like-

On her own, Mamma is very fey IMO. Pointy ears, big teeth... slap some wings on her and she's golden. ( Here is one that I like, but anything rainbow or light up would be good to match/mirror her hyperdermoose)

This makeup tutorial also might offer good ideas to match the rainbow skin idea!

Gonna be out in the woods, but at an old summer camp. So at the least, probably slightly shorter skirt.

reminder this pride month that disabled people in the US on SSI and SSDI do not have the same marriage equality as people not on SSI and SSDI. its called the marriage penalty.

by getting married, a disabled person can lose their income, benefits, and health insurance.

if a disabled person marries an able bodied person, and combined their assets are $3000 or over they will lose all benefits, including medicaid (health insurance).

if a disabled person marries a disabled person, their assistance is lowered 25%.

we don’t have marriage equality until all disabled marriages are equal.

sources x x x x

Reblog this to RSVP to the Pride Month orgy.

Also, for those not sexually inclined we have a craft table and smash bros tournament.

Can we have karaoke?

Of course we can.

Ive never been to an orgy. Is there food? Should i bring a lasagna?

Please bring lasagna. I need everyone to sign up for a main dish or a side.

I can do a Cincinnati chili.

I... cinci chili? This is an orgy.

That said, got three full trays of foccacia on the rise, just waiting for the oven to finish preheating- two traditional olive oil, sea salt and rosemary, and one with balsamic, parmesan, and garlic.

Those who know me: I get to go to a festival and portray a fey creature of some sort for four days. What kind of fey would you say I am, or would be good at portraying?

Now I want to go through my spring and summer stuff and put together fey-Mamma-going-camping outfits...

(Suggestions as to what this would look like gratefully accepted.)

I'm very tempted by this: https://www.orchardcorset.com/products/waist-training-corsets-steel-boned-underbust-plus-size-mesh-corset-cs-201

Either color really, for Mamma. 🤔