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gentle reminder for when you feel demotivated

  • there’s nothing wrong with feeling demotivated, so please don’t punish yourself for that – everyone, even the most successful people in the world, can fall into a slump
  • you can do it
  • i believe in you
  • it’s not going to be as bad as you think
  • don’t place too high expectations on yourself, especially when you’re feeling low
  • set small and specific goals – little steps are always important
  • print out or write down what you need to do and put that note where you know you’re going to see it
  • set yourself a specific time for when you’re going to start working on something, but don’t put too much pressure on yourself if you’re unable to
  • see what others are doing and achieving, and use that as motivation instead of comparing yourself to them and putting yourself down
  • call for help from others to cheer you on when you can’t do it on your own
  • counter your negative thoughts with positive ones
  • think about the benefits of doing the task, instead of the difficulties it will take to get there
  • take deep breaths and take a step back when things become too overwhelming or the stress takes over (here’s a written breathing exercise, or a gif you can breathe along with)
  • take breaks, don’t overload yourself
  • if you think that your schedule is becoming more and more of the same thing every single day, that can heavily impact your motivation - so try your best to try something new, or even just do something that you would usually do in a different way, or with a different outlook; it doesn’t matter if the change you make is big or small, because every attempt goes towards progress
  • when you’ve completed what you needed to, or even just worked at it a little bit, make sure to congratulate yourself, because you’re trying and i’m so proud of you for that
  • try your best, because your best is good enough
  • you got this