Maybe I'm in heaven, or...?

Sometimes I start thinking about gender and it’s like the expanding brain meme where I eventually get to “wow everyone in the world has their own specific gender” like infinite genders, a new gender for every person, no two people experience gender in the same exact way cause no one has the same exact life 😮

that Leslie Feinberg quote, “Gender is the poetry each of us makes out of the language we are taught.”  -- yeah, actually

i usually just go with “my gender is the only thing on the planet with more adhd than me” but that’s pretty good too

You know what I'm a slut for? When a character visibly drops a ruse. Like, the way their face changes the moment they give up a facade and reveal themselves.

This applies to revealing love, apathy, anger, evil intent. I mcfuckin love it.

found these screenshots and realized i forgot to ever post them lmao oops

transcript: two tweets from twitter user Sascha🐀 commissions open @/confusedophan

“the whole point of being nonbinary is using they pronouns!” “the whole point of being nonbinary is to be androgynous!” you fools. the “whole point” of being nonbinary is to be yourself, a person that can’t be put in binary boxes. why do you want to push people into a third box??

nonbinary people can use any pronouns. nonbinary ppl can look like anything. nonbinary people can wear whatever they want. we can be masc, femme, androgynous, whatever feels comfortable. no boxes, no checklist. just our authentic selves.

GREEN VELVET ST. PATRICK’S DAY CUPCAKES

cherry blossom in spring via 单之蔷

maybe loneliness is a friend in itself, something to embrace while it rests in me, in need of my warmth. maybe loneliness isn't something to be fixed, but something to quietly sit and have tea with

Your worth is not determined by the school you go to or the job you have

Why are cishet men like this…

Only good response.

“banned”

You are allowed to grieve for what you lost when you went through trauma. You are allowed to mourn. You are allowed to be angry. You are allowed to feel. 

AMAZING PORK DUMPLINGS

Really nice recipes. Every hour.

Show me what you cooked!

Tea parties required as well. #EthicalMemes

Sometimes they’re the ones saving us. #EthicalMemes

Yay new friends! #EthicalMemes

this kid is 14 oh my god is no one teaching children to protect themselves online anymore…

Meanwhile us olds are like: I don’t have a carrd and I’m not reading yours

Please don’t advertise your personal information, anyone could find that and use it however they want.

Oh my fucking god it isn’t 1998 anymore no one cares

??? Wtf does this mean??? 80% of employers google you before hiring you, child predators use that info to groom kids, abusers use that info against victims, police/government track activists online? Do you honestly think the internet has gotten safer since 1998????

also don’t tell any rando who wanders onto your blog with unknown intentions the specifics of how they can trigger you???? no????

the fact that its not 1998 anymore is exactly WHY you should be more fucking careful. do you have any idea the tools people have now compared to then? the fact that its gotten exponentially easier to find people in real life based off online info while young people have gotten extremely comfortable sharing all their personal details is deeply concerning.

im sorry no one ever taught you internet safety but that is NOT because its not important anymore. ITS MORE IMPORTANT THAN IT EVER WAS. please listen to the people whove been on the internet longer than youve been alive. our intentions are good and internet safety is vital. especially if youre queer, which i know for a fact a lot of you are.

Teenagers: *post personal info online, all together in an easy-to-find carrd*

Kidnappers, p*dos, and other Unsavory Types: 👀👀👀

My pinned thread is for my cats.  That’s it.  Cannot fathom people knowing everything about me.

Meanwhile I’m over here like… YOU CAN PIN THREADS?!

Yep real easy to.  Just pin a tweet, then reply to said tweet.  Voilia.  Pinned thread.

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