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Anonymous asked:

How do you fall back in love with life?

malisoun-deactivated20200727 answered:
  1. clean your room.  clean space, uncluttered space, space that doesn’t have miasma clinging to it can work wonders.  clean the dishes.  sweep.  take out the trash.  peel the clothes off the floor and wash them, and then actually fold/hang them.  take a long shower.  scrub behind your knees.  brush your teeth.  (this can be utterly exhausting, but try to get it done in a day, if you can.  the end result is worth it.)
  2. pull out your notebook.  it doesn’t need to be a new notebook, but preferably one that you don’t usually write in, or that you haven’t touched in a while.  fuck moleskins.  the yellow legal pad will work fine.  sit in your room, or in the park, or in the library, and write a list.  count clouds.  describe all the colors that you see, and note patterns that arise.  sketch the cracks in the walls.  note the shape light makes when it enters a space.  talk about what the air tastes like, smells like.  what sounds are there?  even the white nose, break that down: air planes, fans, cicadas, anything.  remind yourself that you are sitting in the middle of a space brimming with detail.  remind yourself that you are not in nothingness and emptiness.  your world is fathomless.  it has potential.
  3. drink cold water and try to eat something that isn’t processed.  it does not need to be fancy.  buy yourself an apple with the change between your couch cushions.  eat it outside.  if you’re someone who walks, walk somewhere afterwards, just to stretch your legs.  take your fucking meds.  remember that its a good thing that you are inside your body.  your body is a fantastic and endlessly intricate machine, and even though society has smacked a bunch of poisonous ideas on it, that doesn’t change its inherent worth and splendor.  take care of it.
  4. read a novel.  underline your favorite lines, and write phrases that twist your heart inside your chest on the back of your hand with an ink pen.  read a novel like it’s poetry.  read poetry, something decadent but unpretentious.  watch a movie you haven’t seen before.  if there are free art galleries near you, walk through one.  take your time.  let yourself bask.  if there are patterns in what makes your soul ache, write those patterns down – marbles arches or soot crumbling bricks or dandelions or descriptions of dresses or whatever it is, write them down.
  5. your chosen family is important.  remember, they picked you as much as you picked them.  the love has no obligation.  it is given freely and it is given from a place of compassion.  you are not a burden.  if you need to breathe, take a minute by yourself and just exist, but remember to go back to your people.  when they need you, listen and be gracious.  always be gracious.  the universe sometimes remembers things like that.
  6. listen to new music.  link jump on youtube or related artist jump on spotify or ask the chap beside you in the cafe what their favorite band is, and listen to that.  listen to something that you don’t usually listen to.  we tend to tie up a lot of memory with music.  we are falling in love again.  the soundtrack needs to be specific to that.  
  7. allow yourself to indulge in romantics.  press flowers in old books.  play movies with subtitles and mouth the words.  dance in your room.  wear something that makes you feel good, even if you wouldn’t wear it in public.  write your chosen family letters, even if you hand deliver them.  write poetry, even awful poetry.  revel in its awfulness.  eat dark chocolate and when your chosen family want to go out, try to go out with them sometimes, even if its just to the market.  
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Ooft!

Okay...

The bridge collapse, the drama, henren, chimaddie planning their wedding, everyone living (thank god) and bathena going on their cruise!!! 💯

But...

Buddie.

I need to talk.

You want to chuck the two most hottest guys (who have INSANE chemistry with each other (and a ready-made family) and already have a very well established relationship with each other) with two very random people who, we as the audience, was only introduced to two episodes ago???

I'm sorry, but no.

You want to introduce love interests?? You do it from the beginning. Where we, the audience, can see it. The first meeting, the will they, won't they? You build it up from the BEGINNING!

You don't chuck two random love interests in with two episodes to go to round a series out!

No wonder the 911onFox hashtag on Twitter is full rage, and queerbaiting accusations! Because it's beginning to feel like that!

And don't get me started on the character building that was happening for both Buck and Eddie, only for that last twenty minutes to completely destroy it all, like the bridge collapse!

#buddie#buck and eddie#911#that gay firefighter show#oliver stark#ryan guzman#henren#bathena
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17 years ago, a film premiered on Disney Channel.

I was supposed to be getting ready to go out for a family meal, but 11 years old me got distracted by a movie.

After that, I rewatched it as much as I could whenever it was on. And then after it was released on DVD, it was on, on repeat 🤣

Even today, I still watch it when I need a bit of nostalgia. In fact, it was the first thing I clicked on when Dosney+ launched.

Happy 17th birthday, High School Musical. It really did turn out to be the start of something new... 🐾🤍❤️

#high school musical#zac efron#vanessa hudgens#zanessa#lucas grabeel#monique coleman#corbin bleu#ashley tisdale#troy bolton#gabriella montez#troyella#sharpay evans#ryan evans#taylor mckessie#chad danforth