i love princess treatment. tie my shoe for me when it gets untied, carry me when my feet start to hurt from wearing these really cute heels all day, kiss my hand and tell me i’m the most beautiful girl you’ve ever laid eyes on, open doors for me, pull my chair out for me, fix my hair when it looks untamed, hold my face and kiss my forehead, hold my hand everywhere we go, wine and dine me, tell me that i’m too pretty to lift a finger, remind me how much you absolutely adore me. treat me like the cute angel princess that i am. i deserve it.
my kink is executing the idea i had in my head and it coming out just as i imagined, if not better.
I’m not delusional I’m spiritual & all my thoughts are manifesting
you have to be very direct and intentional about what you will accept and what you will not accept. standards can not be ambiguous, you have to let the world know where you stand and live according to your very own compass.
A MOMENT OF VULNERABILITY: My intrusive thoughts are not always "intrusive". Sometimes they are just the hard things I don't want to think about that I need to. The things that have been stuffed away. Whether it is a simple reminder, something I need to heal from, a forgotten memory, or just a thought. Every intrusive thought is not trauma. I think I am coming to terms with the fact that I need to learn how to compartmentalize these thoughts.
What I need to remember.
What I need to release.
What I need to talk about.
Etc.