Þe Herald’s Guide to Queer ſymbolism for Ladies, Knights, & Perſons Who Defy þe Gender Binary, part þe firſt
Perchance thou hast decided to embark upon the most noble endeavor of devising a coat of arms for a person of worth, but thou art stymied by the lack of appropriate symbolism to convey just how profoundly such a person is not heterosexual or cisgender.
Worry not! This humble demigirl hath endeavored to compile here an exhaustive reference listing the great many plants, animals, and objects suitable as heraldic devices, for all thine fanciful creations of arms. Here shall be described under the tag of #Herald’s Guide to Queer Symbolism an exhaustive account of the lesbian, gay, asexual, aromantic, bisexual, pansexual, transgender, intersex, and otherwise non-heterosexual and non-binary character such things as may be suitable for this purpose. Thus follows the first account, focused upon two instances of flowers as symbols:
Dianthus (Carnation)
A heraldic device of one or more dianthus flower(s) vert may be used to symbolize romantic or sexual desire of men for other men, as the green carnation has been rendered symbolic of masculine homosexuality through an association with the writer Oscar Wilde.
Pensée or Violette (Viola)
The proper name for the flowering plant most commonly known as violets or pansies, viola has appeared on occasion in historic heraldry. According to a writer cited in Hilderic Friend’s Flowers and flower-lore, Vol. 2, the violet is not a typical heraldic flower and was regarded as too humble a plant, but "...it has been ingeniously given as a device to an amiable and witty lady of a timid and reserved character, surrounded with the motto 'Il faut me chercher' (I must be sought after)." while the pansy was regarded as bold and symbolic of reflective thought, owing to its derivation from the French pensée.
For the women-loving woman, the viola is a most suitable heraldic device. JoAnne Myers notes in her Historical Dictionary of the Lesbian and Gay Liberation Movements that the flower was said to have been worn by the poet Sappho, and that it was used in Basil Rathbone’s 1927 adaptation of Edouard Bourdet’s The Captive as a motif to suggest the love of a woman for another.
Overall, the viola is a suitable device for the arms of a woman who is much consumed by romantic or sexual affection for other women. If blazoned as violet or violette, it is suggestive of a more passive desire, and if blazoned as pansy or pensée, a more bold and outgoing love is represented.