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Terfs/truscum will be blocked.// Before sending an ask, try looking up the main idea or word related to your question in our blog, if no results come up, shoot us an ask and we'll answer it as soon as possible :) We're not therapists, we are not doctors, we are just here to give advice to those who want it // Current Admins: Ashton (He/Him) || Kolby (He/They) || Aylin (They/Them) || Noah (he/they) || Hunter (They/Them) // This blog is dedicated to giving advice to trans boys and non-binary teens or people who want to know more about the trans community, questions regarding gender identity, dysphoria, sexuality, or being unsure of your identity are welcome and encouraged// we post tips and tricks to passing and looking more masculine // We also offer semi daily validity// Icon gotten from @butchspace
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dsmelliot
I haven't been on this side of the internet in a while, so here's what I look like nowadays
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butternaan
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brushedbug

[ID: a screenshot of the song “Mama” by My Chemical Romance, cut off to focus on the progress bar. The song from the start to 1:44 is labelled 😭🤘. After that there is a small section labelled “You should have raised a baby girl/I should have been a better son,” with the words over the trans flag. The song after this point is labelled 😭🤘 again. End ID]

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transphobes are on a different plane of existence than the rest of us how do you manage to come to these conclusions

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queerdo-mcjewface

Free Safer Sex Kit (Including Emergency Contraception)

July 27, 2021

Sister Reach is distributing a free safer sex kit to anyone in the US who requests one. You pick what it includes, and the options are condoms, dental dams, lube, a mask, hand sanitizer, and emergency contraception.

If you use condoms as your only method of preventing pregnancy it is a good idea to keep emergency contraception on hand in case a condom breaks. Emergency contraception works better the sooner you take it.

Even if you do not need any of the items offered or live outside of the US please feel welcome to reblog this post so that someone who can use it can find out about it.

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metalwing15

Pride month’s here so I wanted to finally make some more pride art again. Here’s part 1 of the pride brushes! It’s a simple design but they came out much nicer than I expected. You can find all the designs right over on Redbubble (and over on Society6 soon enough as well)! I’ll be posting part 2 very soon as well as some more pride art. Happy pride month to you guys!

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youchangedme

Happy Indigenous History Month + Pride Month ❤️

Without Reservations - Ricardo Caté // #StandingRockTwoSpirits // Historical Photo of Two-Spirit Natives // Griffin Germain // Diné Pride (Cayla Nimmo)

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theprideful

LGBTQ+ Spiral Wallpapers

Lesbian | Gay | Bi
Trans | Gay/Queer | Pan
Ace | Aro | Nonbinary

please rb if saving :)

requests are open in the comments

Agender | Genderfluid | Genderqueer
Queer ×2 | Polyamorous
Omni | Ply | Cass
Abro | Aroace
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autie-j
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androgynepositivity

Hey, you. Yes, you; the non-binary person staring at the screen.

You are so loved and appreciated and your value as a human being is intrinsically and intricately beautiful. Please drink some water if you haven’t in a while and get some rest today. You deserve it, and also, if nobody else has said it to you in a while, thank you. Thank you for being here. You’re wonderful.

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gatheringbones
“One of those old women (late eighties, I would guess but did not ask) bought a book after. I signed it To Margaret. What she really wanted was a Tomboy Survival Guide postcard, she told me. “I need one or two of these. I was a tomboy way back in the day. Thank you. I was not as lucky as you. I had it pounded and prayed out of me, just like you said in your story.” She looked me in the eye and started to cry. So did I. I asked Margaret if I could give her a hug. “Oh, by all means,” said Bernice, sitting right behind her in a motorized chair. “She loves hugging. We’re together.” Then Margaret and I gave each other a long, deep soul hug. She was still crying. “I don’t think they pounded and prayed it right out of you,” I told her. She shook her head and nodded, kind of at the same time. She was wearing a baby-blue blouse and a butterfly brooch. So, here is to all the Margarets and Bernices out there. I am grateful that my art sometimes helps us find each other, sometimes in the last places either of us were looking.”

Ivan coyote, rebent sinner

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butchscientist

i've seen so many posts online along the lines of "these 3 pairs of pants are, according to their labels, different sizes, and yet they all fit the same, so if you go shopping and end up needing a higher number size than you're used to, don't feel bad about it!" and like, while it is true that women's clothing size are an inconsistent mess which makes shopping for clothes really confusing and annoying, i want to say that it's actually completely okay if you need a larger size than before and it's because you've gained weight.

gaining weight is not a crime, you do not need to have plausible deniability to be allowed to feel okay with needing a different size of clothing. gaining weight is not a moral failure. people gain weight sometimes, and sometimes that leads to people needing to use a larger size of clothing, and that's okay.

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thyrell

cis people who legitimately questioned their gender and decided they were cis are cis, but theyre not cis about it. i respect that.

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thyrell

exactly!! even if youre cis, examining your relationship with gender closely like that is only gonna help you understand yourself and grow as a person!!!

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ladyofthelake13

gender is a social construct. You get to inspect your own construction site to make sure it’s up to code.

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sazandorable

Examining my gender led to my conclusion that I am my assigned-gender-at-birth and something else, and figuring out the something else made me very happy, but I’ve also never been happier and more comfortable being my AGAB than since I sat down and decided that yes, actually, I like it, I enjoy it and I’m keeping it. But I am choosing it, I am choosing the ways I want to perform it, and on days I don’t want to, I don’t have to and I am something else.

Very freeing, highly recommend