ultimately, healing is work, and healing is not easy and, most importantly, healing is forever worth it
Also I think we need to get rid of the idea that therapy is just a paid bestie for you to vent at because like therapy is so much more than ranting to someone it's challenging your internal cognitive disconnects and replacing maladaptive coping mechanisms and a whole bunch of other stuff and involves you putting in as much work as the therapist but I feel like that part is lost on people
ok well im going to build a good future for myself whether i like it or not
2023 will be filled with love.
2023 will be filled with health.
2023 will be filled with kindness.
2023 will be filled with positivity.
2023 will be filled with happiness.
2023 will be filled with good vibes.
There’s something to be said for the way the older generation adheres to social rituals that cultivate community… when I was younger I would be mad embarrassed when my aunt would have me meet random people & I’m still shy but I woke up went downstairs and she introduced me to all of the stonemasons working on the house, bunch of guys she was feeding fresh fruitcake and coffee to and it’s like… yeah this is nice actually. This is what is missing from a lot of modern lives. Like making real efforts at introductions & getting to know whoever is around you even if it feels a little bit awkward is good for growth.
it’s december 1 where’s the christmas tail kitten bring him to me
i have to do EVERYTHING around here
I made a baby blanket for a pregnant woman at work and I went back and forth about it like “is this weird? To like hand make something for someone when we’re like friendly acquaintances not like bffs. God why are you so fucking awkward.” Anyway I gave it to her and she said she loved it and in the back of my head I’m like yea she’s nice and probably just humoring the weirdo. Well she texted me a picture this weekend of a scrunchy faced newborn at the hospital wrapped in the blanket I made her. And I’m like. Wow. She loved it so much she took it with her! To the hospital! To give birth! She wrapped her newborn it! I am just so filled with love and joy right now.
People will love the things you make them. Because you thought of them and you cared.
Didn’t notice porn bot followers I thought beautiful women were enchanted by my reblogging
laptop: PLEASE place me on a hard surface that does not obstruct my cooling fan I am begging you
me: shut up we are going to snuggle in bed :)
Whenever I have something copied to my clipboard I can feel it. I feel the weight of it on my mouse
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adulthood is just an endless stream of phone calls you don’t want to make but have to
You show a cat something and they're like sniff sniff sniff sniff sniff sniff sniff ooooh I understand now. Don't care
My old person trait is that I think a website should work in a web browser and not try to open an app