still trying to heal from shit i don’t discuss
normalize “I’m willing to work on that” instead of “that’s just how I am”
“I survived because the fire inside me burned brighter than the fire around me.”
— Joshua Graham (via quotemadness)
be healthily sensitive. tell them you're hurt when you're hurt. describe what hurt you. no silent treatment and passive aggressiveness. be honest. don't compromise your emotion. don't bottle it up. weigh the issue. understand and maybe, forgive.
no matter what happens, you're always going to have crisp winter days. you're going have babies smiling at you in grocery stores, new music to discover, lazy summers, soft sweaters and hot chocolate, fresh bread, your favourite movie. there's always something to look forward to, that makes things seem less awful, no matter how small.
i hate when people ask me what sign i am like bitch i’m a sign from god. start running.
I don’t wish to reconnect with anyone that’s hurt me. All is forgiven but I wish you well. Maybe in another life.
accept that you arent special to some people and move on
My last relationship taught me that the more chances you give someone, the less they value you. They’re not afraid to lose you because they know no matter what, you won’t walk away. Never let someone get too comfortable with disrespecting you. Love yourself first.
Stop ignoring early on signs of someone in your life being toxic. It only gets worse.





