signs you might be aromantic (or arospec)!
- you feel disconnected with the idea of romance
- you can’t imagine yourself in love
- you have trouble finding out what your ‘type’ is
- you struggle with feeling empathetic towards romance related issues (a friend’s date going wrong, a breakup, etc)
- when you do feel romantic attraction, it’s hard to keep and it ends up fading quickly
- you have tried to make yourself feel romantic attraction before
- you made up crushes on people to fit in
- you prefer romance in media over real life romance
- imagining yourself in a romantic situation is a turn-off
- you have trouble relating to allo’s romance experiences
- romance seems strange or alien-like to you
- you don’t understand why others are so obsessed with relationships
- you don’t know what romantic attraction feels like
- you have a difficult time differentiating romantic and platonic attraction
- you find romance interesting in theory, but not in real life
- you cannot tell whether you feel romantic attraction or not
- you’ve only had a very small amount of crushes (or possible crushes), if any
- you can’t describe what romantic attraction feels like
- you have thought that people might have been exaggerating romance or romantic attraction