Avatar

Lovely!! X3

@100cat

An Aro Lesbian obsessed with lovecore, memes, video games, cats, and lgbtq+ positivity! (I’m 21+ but I DONT post nsfw here!)
Avatar

Sideblog master list!

In no particular order, to be added on to later 030

((Note: Some blogs are very inactive.))

Avatar

My little brother just told me I look like I drink vinegar (for the health benefits), and then my youngest sister tells me i look like a beat-up 12 y/o, then my little brother tells me I look like someone who drinks olive oil for health reasons- what do they meannn XD

signs you might be aromantic (or arospec)!

- you feel disconnected with the idea of romance

- you can’t imagine yourself in love

- you have trouble finding out what your ‘type’ is

- you struggle with feeling empathetic towards romance related issues (a friend’s date going wrong, a breakup, etc)

- when you do feel romantic attraction, it’s hard to keep and it ends up fading quickly

- you have tried to make yourself feel romantic attraction before

- you made up crushes on people to fit in

- you prefer romance in media over real life romance

- imagining yourself in a romantic situation is a turn-off

- you have trouble relating to allo’s romance experiences

- romance seems strange or alien-like to you

- you don’t understand why others are so obsessed with relationships

- you don’t know what romantic attraction feels like

- you have a difficult time differentiating romantic and platonic attraction

- you find romance interesting in theory, but not in real life

- you cannot tell whether you feel romantic attraction or not

- you’ve only had a very small amount of crushes (or possible crushes), if any

- you can’t describe what romantic attraction feels like

- you have thought that people might have been exaggerating romance or romantic attraction

this is my dog coded mutual this is my vampire coded mutual this is my machine coded mutual this is my laura palmer mutual this is my ressurected corpse mutual and that's derek

umm how to be a dog by andrew kane. btw.

in case you didnt fucking know

[ID: How To Be A Dog

If you want to be a dog, first you must learn to wait. You must wait all day until somebody returns, and if somebody returns late, you must learn to wait until then. Then you must learn to speak in one of the voices available to you, high and light or mellow thick and low or middle-range and terse. Whichever voice you learn to speak, you will meet somebody who does not like you because of it, they will be wary or annoyed or you will remind them of something or someone else. Once you have learned to speak you must learn not to speak unless you absolutely must, or to speak as much as you feel you must regardless of how many times you are told to stop, or sit, or placed behind a door-this will depend on what kind of a dog you want to be. And indeed there are many kinds. It may not feel as though you get to choose, and that too is a kind of dog. Next you must learn to relinquish all control over everything you might wish to control. You must learn to prefer to be led about by the neck on a piece of string, or staked to a neglected lawn by a length of chain. You must learn, once you have sampled the freedom of a life without a chain, that it is better to return and be chained again. Or you may learn that it is not— a fugitive is also a kind of dog. Of course you must learn to love, to love always and love entirely and to be wounded by nothing so much as the violence of your own love. You must learn to be confused but never disappointed by a deficiency of love. You must give up your children and not know why. You must lose yourself wholly in activity; you must never feel an itch that you do not scratch. You must learn how to wait at the foot of the bed and hope, silently, that somebody is drunk enough or lonely enough to invite you up, and you must learn not to show your excitement too much or overplay your hand. If you want to be a dog, you must learn to believe that you are not in fact a dog at all.

End ID]