https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTRmjSuF1/

if you think about it, every time we tranquilize animals to transport them safely to another place, we are the sleep paralysis demon

Proper boundaries

A lot of people in the notes are misunderstanding this. This isn’t saying it’s wrong to TELL someone not to do something that hurts you.

The point of wording it in this way is to place the power back in your own hands. If you simply tell someone “don’t contact me during this time” or “don’t make fun of me for these sensitive subjects” they are not guaranteed to listen to you. And yes, they’re the asshole in that situation, but knowing that doesn’t help you if they’re still violating your bounds. There’s nothing you can do about that with the “not boundary” examples. Knowing what YOU’LL do to protect your peace of mind is more important. It’s not about threatening them with a consequence, it’s about setting an expectation so that you feel comfortable taking an action that best suits your needs if they aren’t inclined to try to suit your needs themselves.

You deserve to have people take your needs seriously, but if they don’t, it’s unfair to yourself for there to be nothing else you can do. Don’t leave your happiness in their hands and hope they listen. Your wellbeing needs to be in YOUR control ultimately, and setting boundaries in this way guarantees that it is, because you’re effectively saying if you won’t adhere to what I’m comfortable with, I’ll do it FOR you, regardless of whether it makes you happy with me or not.

Waiting

:V

I’m eating this Russian chocolate and it made a rattling noise when I shook it and there’s a horse magnet inside???

russian kinder surprise

That looks like it’s made of coal.

It tasted like coal

you ate a vase

honestly at this point me eating a small vase is the least of my problems

how the fuck do you look at a vase or table ornament and think “this is chocolate I will bite it” 

"Babe smell that? There's nothing in there. Babe smell that one. It's tape. Smell that one! Babe! Babe, smell this one? Babe smell that one..."

This is what healthy couple means

@sugarpapii

Pangolin casually messing up a wall 

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Starting fresh 😂

The Rational National: Bombshell Report Puts Trudeau In THIRD Ethics Scandal

Canadian Prime Minister Justin Trudeau is facing another ethics investigation. This one surrounds a conflict of interest with the WE charity and government contracts including the Canadian Student Service Grant.

Tagging: @politicsofcanada @abpoli

... this dude... ugh

Deep down we already know what we want 

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Gotta focus and try

what kind of pokemon is this?

i love this age of millennial parents tweeting the daily antics of their children

Toddlers are weird. Mine is a trip all day long.

A little girl and her mom came into my gym last year and when I asked her what she wanted to be when she grew up, she said “I wanna go to space to see the lizards!” And wouldn’t elaborate about these space lizards

hes a lapdog

( ´ Д ` )

making a move

i cleaned under the sofa today and they found all of their missing toys

Because everyone needs a video of my princess.