Happiness

In India, there are yogis who have the tiny, skinny bodies every anorexic teenager dreams of. Not because they want to look like gaunt runway models, but because they can’t afford to eat more than a handful of rice and a little boiled cauliflorwer once a day. On a visit to India, I asked one such scrawny yogi, “How are you?” He replied, “I am so hapy to see you here on this beautiful day!! How amazing is this existence, my friend, that we are here, where we are!” His eyes glistened, his face beamed. I asked  him, “Are you in need of anything?” His kind eyes filled with even more warmth (if that’s possible), and he replied through a wide, toothless grin, “Maybe a little food.” It hit me then and there: If this person is this radiant and happy in these conditions, what’s my problem?

Some of the yogis in India are barefoot, dressed in rags, and exists in “homes” that consist of dirty ground and a gutter. And yet, when you look into their eyes, they’re radiating more joy and love than any Wall Street executive or Beverly Hills millionairess has ever known….

Happiness isn’t complicated. In fact, it’s the opposite of complex: It’s the simplest thing in the world.

Steve Ross, Happy Yoga

“ Expecting someone to complete you is not love, it is expecting someone to complete you. Expecting someone to satisfy you and make you happy is not love, it is expecting someone to satisfy you and make you happy. So what is love? Love is accepting. Love is allowing of how another chooses to be. Love is a feeling of bliss and pure joy and acceptance of another being, the world, and of yourself. Love is a radiant sun, burning for the sake of burning, shining for the sake of shining, asking nothing in return. The reward of being in a loving state is the greatest reward possible: being in a loving state. If you've never been in a loving state, then you have never truly loved. Love does not want. Love is not controlling, manipulative, or conditional. Love is often the idea chosen to justify these behaviors, but that's certainly a misuse of the word. So when you desire someone, when you want something, remember that's not love, that's desire and wanting.”

—Steve Ross - Happy Yoga: 7 Reasons Why There’s Nothing to Worry About
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