“Find meaning. Distinguish melancholy from sadness. Go out for a walk. It doesn't have to be a romantic walk in the park, spring at its most spectacular moment, flowers and smells and outstanding poetical imagery smoothly transferring you into another world. It doesn't have to be a walk during which you'll have multiple life epiphanies and discover meanings no other brain ever managed to encounter. Do not be afraid of spending quality time by yourself. Find meaning or don't find meaning but "steal" some time and give it freely and exclusively to your own self. Opt for privacy and solitude. That doesn't make you antisocial or cause you to reject the rest of the world. But you need to breathe. And you need to be.”

—Albert Camus, from Notebooks, 1951-1959

“Sometimes I get so immersed in my own company, if I unexpectedly run into someone I know, it's a bit of a shock and it takes me a while to adjust.”

—Kazuo Ishiguro

“There are days when solitude is a heady wine that intoxicates you with freedom, others when it is a bitter tonic, and still others when it is a poison that makes you beat your head against the wall.” ”

—Colette

“Your bad love of yourselves makes solitude a prison to you. But let this be your honor: always to love more than you are loved and never to be second in this. ”

—Friedrich Nietzsche, Thus Spoke Zarathustra

“I will spend more time with myself in this lifetime than anyone else. Let me learn to be the kind of person I would like to have as a friend.”

Al-Anon, Courage to Change

I’m content with solitude and a few good people, and I don’t crave to be surrounded by large crowds. I don’t go out of my way to befriend acquaintances, and I enjoy spending time with myself. I don’t need someone to talk to when I’m sitting alone, and I will not let you understand me or get to know me if I don’t feel you will correlate into my life somehow. Draw your own opinions, of which you’ll deem fact anyway; Make friends endlessly and enjoy attention from friends and people who want to be interested in you romantically—that’s all you. I’ll stick to my introverted ways, with the exclusion of the occasional extroverted spontaneity. Leave me be.

“Being solitary is being alone well: being alone luxuriously immersed in doings of your own choice, aware of the fullness of your own presence rather than the absence of others. Because solitude is an achievement.”

—Alice Koller

“It is easy in the world to live after the world's opinion; it is easy in solitude to live after our own; but the great man is he who in the midst of the crowd keeps with perfect sweetness the independence of solitude.”

—Ralph Waldo Emerson
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