The real Dominant puts His submissive first. He finds of ways on how to better her life, how to make her a better person, how to make her feel comfortable, and believes He has to earn her submission, with each day that passes. Not simply assuming He has the right, He sees that He has to earn it, and not simply just take it.
After hearing about Jane, I think she really changed the boys, and our fandom.
Big Time Rush was perfect before, yes, but now they have a new outlook on life.
And for us Rushers, we were finally able to forget about Directioners, or drama within our own fandom, being angry about something else, and all that childish nonsense.
Because tonight, all of our hearts and thoughts go out to Jane.
She made us all realize how precious life can be. She may of left us way too soon, but she changed all of us Thursday afternoon. She made us Rushers come together as a family, for her.
I am happy to say I’m part of one of the best fandoms out there, and very proud to know that we have the #1 Rusher looking out for us. And not only that, she’s up there in Heaven, living a good life without pain, and was able to see the boys dedicate their show to her, and give it their all.
I live for our Rusher family. Never change. You’re all beautiful.
I’m not a follower of pessimism, but I’ve never believed that we should hope to bathe in eternal happiness, either. The fact of the matter is: life is not always sun and chrysanthemums, and to say otherwise is an especially bad joke. I don’t believe that the youth should stop attaining sanity entirely, but I do believe that insanity and madness bears ripe fruit throughout all seasons—if you look hard enough. If there is a devil hiding in my shadow, he has been my friend, tempting me into my vices and reaping the despair that follows. But I am, in fact, grateful. Because how does one begin to love and master his own life if he has not been showered in the deepest woe and solitude?
"Always pursue what you want, what you feel and know you deserve. Never stop to drink from a stream on your way to a river "
So the other day I gave my friend some relationship advice, really dropped him some pearls of wisdom if i do say so myself and of course if asked i’m sure he’d agree.
Well, looking back I realised how relevant my words were to my own life, to the very situation that keeps me up at night currently. How is it possible to know what you want.. what you deserve, yet settle for whatever is offered in those moments of desolation?
Because it’s needed, in fact it’s necessary! Sometimes you need to sip from the stream to remind you of the river that awaits and in some cases it’s necessary to sip on more than one occasion to be greeted by reality.
“Illusions commend themselves to us because they save us pain and allow us to enjoy pleasure instead. We must therefore accept it without complaint when they sometimes collide with a bit of reality against which they are dashed to pieces”
Sigmund Freud
