It is okay to be sad or hurt if you have feelings for someone who doesn’t return them
It is okay to vent about how you feel to someone else
It is okay to feel somewhat frustrated
However, it is not okay to blame that person for not liking you back. It is not okay to insult them or demean them.
And it is never okay to force or shame someone into something they don’t want to do
I dunno about anyone else, but as a person who has had a lot of sex and enjoyed it, I’m getting a tad irked at the judgmental, moralizing tone in some of the posts I’m seeing about Dean kissing a girl and (gasp) possibly going down south.
I know we all view sex differently, and factors like culture and religion are in the equation. But: people have sex. Thirty-four-year-old men have sex (typically, lots of it!). It’s natural. It’s enjoyable. It isn’t immature and it definitely isn’t dirty, shameful behavior that somehow lowers him as a person.
Perhaps that tone I’m sensing is unintentional, but it’s there.
The Dean I’m seeing is a man who looks like he could damn well do with a few hours of blissed-out comfort in the arms of someone who doesn’t know his past and won’t ever know his future. Since he isn’t actually in a sexual relationship with Cas, he isn’t being “unfaithful.” And I think Cas has been shown to care enough that he wouldn’t begrudge Dean an escape from his ghosts.
I don’t get why people have such a problem with MJ. You’re not even allowed to fangirl when you’re around other people without getting unnecessary snide comments. I just don’t understand it because he literally didn’t do ANYTHING to anyone except give US his music and basically dedicate his entire life to making us happy. All he wanted was love but people just call him crazy, a freak, and all these other names. It just makes me sad… *sigh*
It piss me off when people call AKB whores or prejudice them based on a few PVs...
Moeno was awesome here~
————
1. Calling someone whore is consider slut shaming.
2. Members like Iwatate Saho talked fan out of commiting suicide.Masuda Yuka fought childhood cancer. Iwata Karen lost her home to the tsunami but she’s still working hard as AKB member. AKB donated over 15 million USD to tsunami victims, 30 buses for transportation, and still continue to visit the disaster area once a month to cheer up the people. Just because you don’t like that AKB wear bikinis doesn’t mean you should call them all “whores” and not acknowledge how amazing some of these girls are, or the goods they done when the goods they done actually helped out other people’s lives.
3. AKB have over 400 songs, over 50 music videos, multiple sub units that done cute things like Warota7, to cool image like DiVA. They have songs about suicide and bullies, depression, to upbeat happy songs about love, to encouraging songs. Their music videos have everything from school settings, to ripping your arm off in a game, to Tim Burton’s Willy Wonka haunted toy shop, to happy dancing in bikini on the beach, to vomiting blood in an apocalyptic setting. It’s not fair to pigeonhole them as some “bikini whores” just because you are a prejudicing ass when AKB have done so many things.
—
Anyway just a random rant because I talked with some girl and she said “IDK WHY YOU LIKE AKB?? I MEAN I SEEN A FEW VIDEOS AND THEY LOOK LIKE SLUTS.”…………..Bitch really? Oh and by few she mean Ponytail and Baby 3x…2 videos out of 50 something……….
Also I find it really disgusting when girls slut shame each other because slut shaming have misogynistic intent behind it. Yeah because it’s not bad enough we get discrimination, let degrade each other as well. <__<
Daddies wouldn’t need to threaten their daughters’ potential dates with guns if more parents would teach their children how to respect and how to demand it in return, both sons and daughters. Of course no parent wants to see their child hurt but fuck, grow up and stop even joking about shooting teenagers. You are just making yourself look like an asshat.
You guys actually scared the shit outta me
So, the other day I found a lot of posts about the following (in loads of different tags)
We get to find out what happened in Budapest?
So I went ahead searching for anywhere I could pre-order this over here in the UK, I found nothing!
Because guess what? You failed to mention that this comes out in fucking February!! So there’s basically no way you’ll be able to pre-order this that far ahead (I don’t know whether it’s the same in America or not)
Just posting so fellow Avengers fans don’t get a bloody heart attack as well.
ALWAYS against GD..
Am I the only one who thinks it’s funny that this Korean government new policy about music videos, is going to be implemented on august 18th?
ooooof course not! Because as always, someone is trying to boycot Ji because…well…I guess it’s fair to say that it’s because he’s an unstoppable genius?
And it has always been like this, saying that he copied another artist’s lyrics, or saying that his lyrics/performances/music videos/outfits are “”“not appropriate”” and banning them…
Trying to finish him completely with all the marijuana incident.
and yet, he’s still alive.
Seriously people leave him alone and stop trying to bring him down just because he’s powerful enough to move millions of people. You just can’t stop him, deal with it.
Even if they apply this policy, he (and other artists as well) is going to find a way to show his amazing music to the world, and he’s still going to break records and sell millions and millions around the world….so yeah, this policy is pretty useless because his second solo album is going to be the best thing in the entire world even if they don’t even let him perform.
I just wanna tell all the bigbang fans, be prepared. Because I’m pretty sure someone is going to come up with some ridiculous excuse to bring him down and ruin his moment. like I don’t wanna be negative but the media always has something to critisize about him
And still, he’s going to kick everybody’s ass.
sorry if you don’t undersant or my english is too bad, I can’t help it
