I wrote: “In times like these when young gay people commit suicide out of fear of rejection, role models are needed. The gravity of the situation doesn’t ask for passive hiding but active fighting. What will Ellen Page’s choice be?”

WELL GODDAMN! Someone get you a cookie! You’re incredibly brave, fighting the good fight. But what about the gay men and women who kill themselves because they were outed before they were ready? I guess you just handpick your injustices, huh? How nice for you.

Do you think that this is making the world better? Really? You think that forcing a 24 year old young woman out of the closet is paving the way for these young gay people to feel some sort of acceptance? Do you think it makes them feel safer than they did before? No. It scares the shit out of them. They may be scared that they’ll be alone, they may be scared they won’t be accepted, but do you know what else they’re scared of? They’re scared that some asshole is going to come along and push them out of the closet when they aren’t ready; that they’re going to have one of the most important parts of them exposed, and not even on their own terms. I know this, because it’s one of my fears. You see, I may be comfortable with who I am, I may be open with some family, friends, and the people on this blog; I may be proud to be gay, but that doesn’t mean I’m completely unafraid everywhere all the time. I live in a place where acceptance is not the norm, in a family with closed off views, all of this rooted in ancient dogmas. I’d love to be out to everyone in my life, because as I said, I am proud of who I am, but at the moment? I don’t think everyone else is ready, which makes me apprehensive and even a little afraid for my own mental and physical safety.

You aren’t fixing any problems, you aren’t ridding the world of it’s injustices, you aren’t making anyone feel safer, you aren’t a brilliant investigative journalist out to expose the truth. You’re a bitter, privileged, insensitive asshole with a blog. You are not the solution, you are the problem.