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Last Friday, I made mention of a friend who is going down the DUI path and today I find out he’s in jail right now until a week from tomorrow, and will be without his license for 18 months. This is his second DUI in five years.
Oh, and he was stopped within 20 feet of his own driveway, after driving approximately 15 miles. He blew a .016.
Don’t drink and drive. Don’t think you’re okay or that you never get stopped.
Just don’t do it.
LISTEN UP YA PSYCHOS
AS ONE OF THE MISHAMORONS WHO WAS RUNNING AROUND DOING CRAZY, IDIOTIC THINGS IN THE SPIRIT OF THE MISHAPOCALYPSE, I BEG OF YOU
DON’T DO IT AGAIN
DO YOU UNDERSTAND THAT BY DOING ANYTHING SIMILAR TO THE MISHAPOCALYPSE, YOU DETRACT FROM THE AWESOME ASPECTS OF THIS DAY
YES WE WERE ANNOYING BUT WE HAD SO MUCH FUN AND EVERYONE WAS UNITED AND CRAZY AND LOONY AND BATSHIT INSANE AND IT WAS PERFECT
BUT DOING THIS AGAIN? RUINS THE WHOLE POINT! IT MAKES IT LESS SPECIAL. IT TAKES AWAY SO MUCH FROM THIS SINGULAR EVENT.
AND ALSO ONCE IS ENOUGH IF THIS WERE TO HAPPEN ANY MORE THAN ONCE A YEAR, I’D PULL MY HAIR OUT I CLOSE MY EYES AND ALL I SEE IS THAT PICTURE HE’S ALWAYS THERE GOD HELP ME SO PLEASE, I ASK YOU VERY NICELY. I APPRECIATE THE DEDICATION TO OUR FANDOMS. BUT JUST THIS ONCE, LET US NOT BEAT THE GROUND WHERE THE HORSE WE ALREADY BEAT TO DEATH WAS.
THIS WAS FUN. NOW DON’T DO IT AGAIN. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE.
AND IF YOU WON’T LISTEN TO ME
DO IT FOR MISHA
Friendly Reminder: It’s okay if you don’t like Defiance. It’s okay if you hate it.
But don’t tag your hate.
Fans of the show go into the Defiance tag to look at what other fans have to say and to enjoy the photosets and gifs and pictures from the show. We don’t want to see you insulting our show. The tags are a happy place for us, not a place for you to tell us how stupid we are for liking the show.
So you’re welcome to talk about how terrible it is on your own blog and dashboard, but don’t tag your hate in the tags.
How Suicide Affects Those Around You.
Are you thinking about suicide?
Thinking about how, if you killed yourself, nobody would care?
If you kill yourself you will change somebodies world. That’s right. They will see everything differently. Just hearing your name will burn their mind with memories. They wont be able to go near where you lived, even your town will hold memories. Listening to the radio they’ll hear that song, remember,that song you sang with them once? They’ll step past your locker every day and wonder why you are not there. Why are you not there??
Do you want to be responsible for your family members, the people who love you, crying every night? For your sisters or brothers losing part of who they are? Your suicide is going to effect most deeply those who care about you most. That’s not right. One of your friends may break down, and just like you, their world will be dark. The pain you are in is awful, but why pass it on to hundreds of people around you, when you could try your hardest to work through it?
Your family will be paranoid. Suddenly everyone will be talking about them. Do you want to be known as ‘the kid who killed themselves?’ People you never knew will be crying when they hear what you’ve done. Yes, they will be effected. Everyone around you will stop and think ;; “was there something i could have done?” Suddenly the people of your world are dying with guilt. All those little hints you gave, they’ll remember them. Oh yes, and it will torture them all the time.
Your friends will think of suicide. Your closest friends are likely to go into a depression like the one that claimed your life. How will they cope, without you? This will break them, for the rest of their lives. And lets not forget the people who will plan your funeral. Your closest friends and family picking out songs for you, photos of you. Crying all the night before, and all the day of your funeral. And all the night after. In fact, they will cry now more than you ever did. Could they have saved you?
They’ll be angry. Oh yes. Why didn’t you tell them? They loved you. And now it’s too late. They’ll be angry with you because they know, they know you could have gotten through it. Then they’ll be angry with themselves because they may have been able to save you if only they knew.
And one day, one day years from now, they’ll remember you. They will all still remember you. The girl that sat up the front of your class; she’ll remember you. The bus driver you saw every morning; he’ll remember you. That little girl you sat with on the bus once, The kid you lent money to at the shop, all your siblings friends, the people that you don’t see, but that see you everyday they will all remember you. And every single one of them will wonder; why?
But imagine your family.
You are part of them. Without you, something is missing. If you killed yourself then part of them dies too. They are incomplete. Every family gathering will be missing something. The photos on the wall are suddenly all cold reminders of what you did.
Who goes through your bedroom? Who cleans out your locker? Who calls the school to tell them one of their students has died? .. Who tells the students? Who calls the funeral directors? Who arranges a coffin for you? Who calls your best friend to tell them you’re dead??
Who finds you?
Please, there are other ways out. I know sometimes the struggle is very, very hard. But it’s not worth giving up on life. Life is all we have, life is everything. Its the beautiful moments, and the sad ones. Please, don’t give up on all those around you. You can make it through.
My teacher said this about her father, who committed suicide:
“I understand that the pain is overwhelming, but I will never forgive him for the pain he has caused others. It was just selfish. If you kill yourself you spread the suffering among thousands of people, it doesn’t only affect those around you but everyone who has ever come in contact with you.”
Please, keep fighting. You can get through this and see that there is life after what you’re facing now. It may be hard, but you’ll get there, and when you do you will appreciate it so much more. I understand that most people know that suicide effects others, but please keep this in mind if you’re ever feeling so low. Give people the chance to help you.
If you having a hard time..
I’m here for you, no matter what your going through, no matter where you are in the world i’m here for you. I’m sure I’ve made a lot of post on this but, i mean it and i want EVERYONE to know i’m here for you, i don’t know what your going through and we all have different problems but i’m here to talk if you need it, i’m having some problems my self and i know what it’s like to feel like you have no body, but that’s going to change because i’m here. If your cutting,drinking,starving your self,anything like that, please stop i’m not in no part to tell you what to do but i’m advising you to stop please, you may think this is the end of your life but trust me it’s not, you have your whole life a head of you, and what will you achieve by ending it all? All you’ll get is a paragraph in the local new paper. that’s all you’ll get for people to remember you, and it’ll only make this much worst for the people around you, your parent,friends,teachers,class mates will wonder ”why’d they do it?” or ”what it my fault?” your parents will say it’s their fault and blame them selves.
I want you to make a promise to me, Promise me you’ll message me if you need someone to talk to, if you need to talk i’m here,
i’ll even give you both my emails,
I won’t give up on you and i promise you that, i’m here for you and i love you.<3