Why would you even be in a short term relationship? Like yo, why would you get with someone knowing you don’t want to spend the rest of your life with them? That’s just dumb. Stay single and flirt with a bunch of people if that’s the case. You should only date someone if you like them and you see yourself with them for a very long time. That’s the point of a relationship, to grow and get stronger so your love for that person expands and never dies out.
“Many whites argue they had a tough time after the 1994 transition, as equity and empowerment policies ensured economic opportunities were closed off to them. Others argue that poverty and unemployment figures have risen sharply within the white population. The SA Institute of Race Relations has published data that shows the truth is very different. Following the transition, 75% of whites in the country had a matric qualification and just 10% had any higher education. But by 2012, almost all white children were passing matric while 60% of those aged 20 to 24 were enrolled for higher education. The comparative figures are that fewer than 50% of black children are going on to pass matric and only 14% of those aged 20 to 24 are currently enrolled for higher education. This despite the fact that the white share of total tertiary enrolment has dropped from roughly 40% to 20% since 1994, while the black share has increased to 65%. Between 1994 and 2012, the rate of unemployment among white people increased from 3% to 5.7%. While this is a significant increase, the actual rate remains remarkably low by national standards. For example, in 2012, 29% of black South Africans were unemployed. Black people were therefore five times more likely to be unemployed.”
—Read more of W(h)ither the Whites? by Frances Cronje at City Press.
This piece relates to this earlier post.
I don’t understand why some people had to put others down so that they can lift themselves up. Is it really necessary to do that? To destroy other people’s lives so that you can feel good about yourself? Remember: Life is not a matter of numbers and rankings. Only narrow minded people live and breathe that. Don’t treat life as a competition. Because if you do, you’ll miss out on most things. You’ll miss out on the simple things that really matter in life.
Your popularity, your social status, it’ll never give you bliss. You’ll never reach the real essence of your existence. And when we’re all over and done with this world, your rankings and your numbers wouldn’t matter anymore. Its the values and lessons you learned with the experiences and challenges given to you by life.
madami ka bang haters? ano yung pinakamalala na nasabi sayo?
Medyo matagal na naman ako nagbblog pero wala pa naman ako naging hater. Kung meron man dati, di ko na alam kung ano, basta dinedma ko lang. Boring akong kaaway eh.
Nasa tao naman yan kaya dumadami haters nila. Maalin lang yan sa (1) mahilig kang makisawsaw sa issue. (2) Lahat na lang nilandi mo (3) Lahat na lang kinaibigan mo, (4) Parang pareho lang naman yung 3 at 4. (5) Gahaman kang sumikat (6) Bibigyan kita ng limang minuto para ikaw ang mag-isip ng pang number 6 o kung tama o mali ba yung mga sinabi ko.
Ang sakin lang, hindi naman yan dadami kung hindi mo din dahil. Kapag dumami yan, isa lang talaga ibig sabihin niyan, wala na sa kanila yung problema, nasayo na.
yup
Yes, women should have the ultimate control of their body- including whether or not they want to have a child. You bitches are right, it’s up to you. But instead of making a baby, and then killing it, how about you keep your legs closed or perhaps use this technology that a lot of people don’t seem to know about, called a condom. Rape, or health complications are different stories when it comes to abortion. But if you can help it, abortion isn’t fucking necessary you liberal smuts.
You don’t need to be perfect to be called beautiful. Perfection and Beauty both differ in spelling and in meaning. Perfection doesn’t mean beauty, and beauty doesn’t mean perfection. Sometimes, what makes a person beautiful is her imperfections. Her flaws, her vulnerability, her insecurities and her awkwardness makes her beautiful. You know why? Because through those imperfections is the genuine, pure self that makes her beautiful. Remember: Nobody’s perfect, but as long as you stay true to who you are, no matter how the society says that you shouldn’t, being you makes you beautiful.
Do 400,000 whites live in squatter camps in South Africa? No - Africa Check
africacheck.orgEarlier this week, the BBC posted an article that outlined a supposedly bleak future for the minority white population living in post-Apartheid South Africa, in particular, “working-class white people, most of them Afrikaans-speakers”.
The post, written by BBC World Affairs editor John Simpson said that despite white people in South Africa having the best jobs, running the economy, and having a disproportionate amount of influence in politics and the media, not all was rosy for all white people in the country. Because of course, if all white people aren’t ‘riding high’, there is a problem - especially because Apartheid offered almost all white people in the country (Afrikaans-speaking white people specifically) a certain quality of life that may have been unparalleled elsewhere. All this whilst systematically restricting the rest of the non-white population of their most basic human rights.
Of this ‘past’, Simpson claims that both white and black people alike have chosen to indulge in historical amnesia as South Africans would ‘like to forget’ the ‘bad old past’.
But I beg to differ. South Africans don’t commemorate and celebrate holidays such as Youth Day (June 16th), Heritage Day (September 24th), Human Rights Day (March 21st), and Freedom Day (April 27th), because they’d like to ‘forget’ the past, quite the opposite, Mr. Simpson. And then again, whenever any of the ruling governments departments - whether it be the police, the ANCYL, or the Department of Home Affairs - gets caught up in a scandal of some sort, you can bet your last Rand that white people in the country somewhere will bring up, in some way, how disorganized, inefficient or corrupt this government is in comparison to those prior to 1994. I’ve even witnessed people at grocery stores rant on about how ‘black people got lazy after Apartheid was over’.
But I digress.
Simpson is part of a BBC investigative news team that features stories that ‘reveal deeper truths about their areas of expertise’, and although I’m no expert on poverty and race relations in South Africa, the perspective of the article didn’t sit well with me and after tumblr user mixopop posted this article (link above), I went on a little search of my own to see if Simpson’s claims had any weight to them.
Here are some excerpts from other articles:
The BBC article mainly featured poor white South Africans in a country with millions of poor black people. The article failed to mention that white unemployment in South Africa is only 7%, which is lower than the majority of European nations, while black unemployment is well above 30%. If Simpson wants to talk about who has no place in South Africa, and if the basis of his argument is an economic one, then it is the black person who has no place in South Africa.
Seeing a poor white person in South Africa is still a relatively new phenomenon. When most black people see a poor white person, they ask themselves: ”What were you doing during apartheid? What were your parents doing during apartheid?” You see, apartheid taught us that to be white meant you were well off, while being black meant you were poor.
Although poverty is no longer legislated, it is not true that South Africans now have an equal opportunity to achieve wealth – black South Africans are still at greater risk of falling into or remaining in poverty. One wonders if Simpson posed the question about poor whites because it was unfathomable for him to see whites living in poverty, that blacks can be poor but whites should not be. The premise of his argument, although left unsaid, implies that.
And:
“South Africa has never been in a situation where whites have been singled out and persecuted,” said ANC spokesperson Keith Khoza.
“Instances of crime and poverty affect all South Africans regardless of the colour of their skin.”
Khoza also said the BBC was suffering from an “apartheid hangover”.
“The BBC is living in their own world with their racist tendencies where they wish to undermine the government of South Africa because it is largely a black government.”
“This isn’t just an attack on the government of South Africa and the ANC, it’s an attack on South Africa as a whole.”
The Democratic Alliance too were displeased with the article.
“This is a very pessimistic post-apartheid view of South Africa. Poverty is endemic in this country and we have poor people – not poor whites and poor blacks.
“The article and video create the impression that black people don’t suffer in the new South Africa, where they most certainly do.”
Further reading:
Stop asking Jerry Lewis about female comics

By CNTributor Jason Cook
The following is the opinion of the writer and not CNU as a super cool tumblr-blog. Direct all disagreements (you shouldn’t have any) to him
If you’ve been paying attention today, Jerry Lewis — 87-year-old comedy “legend” (see: irrelevant) — said he doesn’t think female comedians are funny. Again.
With all the Adam Carollas kicking around, Lewis is a pioneer, declaring his stance very early on that women are not funny.
So this is no longer news. Lewis does not think women are funny. We normal people condemn him. The end.
But we make it news. And not just comedy news sites (like this one!) You can find it on USA Today. On ABC news. On the Washington Post’s blog. It’s everywhere.
Jerry Lewis reminding us that he does not find women funny is not a noteworthy thing. “Hey, let’s ask a nearly nine decades-old man if he still thinks women are not funny! That’ll be fun! Maybe he changed his mind (we know that he did not)!”
I am asking people who talk to Jerry Lewis, people who write* about Jerry Lewis, Jerry Lewis himself, to leave this issue alone until he retracts his dumb-ass caveman opinion and checks out one of literally hundreds and hundreds of very funny women.
*I realize by writing this I am somewhat of a hypocrite but really, fuck Jerry Lewis
Dear BOYS
- Kaming mga BABAE, magaling magpretend.
- Kapag nasasaktan kami, nagpapakamanhid kami.
- Kapag may nakitang hindi maganda, nagbubulag bulagan kami.
- Kapag may narinig na mali, nagbibingi bingihan kami.
- Pero kapag mag isa nalang kami, dun kami naglalabas ng sakit.
- Dun kami umiiyak.
- Kaya ang pangarap naming lalake ay yung sensitive sa mga nararamdaman namin.
- Yung kayang i-handle kung anong nararamdaman namin.

