Open forum:
I’ve been noticing a lot of ‘unpopular opinion’ warnings going up, or rants being hidden behind “Read More”, so I thought I would, in the spirit of sharing and open discussion, air mine right here and now. One, perhaps, rare thought for each of the shows I’m actively watching.
- Fringe: I like altverse, and Altlivia. I also find the Bishops more compelling than Olivia in every way.
- Community: I find Britta often humorous, but also often obnoxious.
- Supernatural: There is nothing about Season 6 I wouldn’t mind tossing away to let it have ended when it ended at 5. Castiel bored me.
- Criminal Minds: I don’t think Hotch is that badass. I like Seaver.
- Glee: Finn can’t sing.
- Dexter: I found Rita annoying and hard to put up with.
- Leverage: I don’t think Hardison and Parker are that cute; I like her interactions with Eliot better.
- Game Of Thrones: I find the characters to be, while not flat, not that uniquely developed.
- Castle: I do not find Beckett and Castle to be overly compelling as characters. Very entertaining, but not amazing.
- Stargate Universe: I liked it.
- Bonus: I usually am more compelled and feel more intrigued by male characters then female.
Remember: just because someone doesn’t find something flawless doesn’t mean they hate it and are deserving of your scorn. Criticisms can also be born from liking something enough to analyze it, too.
Dear Marilyn,
How is your new house in Bridgeport coming along?
Question asked by anon

Honestly, your message gave me the motivation to finish it! Please keep your eyes open today for the photos I plan to share of my completely finished house in Bridgeport!
For Boinky and Pal...
Who is the decorator at home? and how do you manage to compromise when it comes to that?
submitted by its-andee-baby
Pal: I can answer this! It is a joint effort. We both work together decorating our homes. We have a brand new, rather large house in Starlight Shores and we have been tirelessly working on making it feel like home.

“Boinky, I approve of the girls room.”

“Boinky, I approve of this bed choice.”

“Boinky, I approve of the living room. Especially the one painting over the fireplace that you actually let me pick.”
Thanks for the question!
Open Forum
- Pagbalik ko, naka-aarange yung mga upuan sa side. Yun pala mag-oopen forum.
- FIRST TIME kong sumali sa Open Forum.
- Pangatlo yata ako sa nagsalita. Dorothy, sorry. Nasasaktan lang ako minsan sa mga nasasabi mo sa kinT_T
- Naiyak na ako ng sobra dahil sa mga sinabi ng mga sumunod sa kin. Lalo na yung kay Frank. T_T
- Pati boys umiyak. T_T
- “Observation” T_T (Ako lang ang nakakaintindi nito.)
- Dahil kailangan naming mag-audience sa English chu chu basta awarding yun, di na nakapagsalita yung iba.
- Nung niyakap ko si Gadielle, dun ako napaiyak nang sobraT_T
- Nag-prayer kami as one. T_T
- Nung nasa function hall na kami, sabi ko kay Ate Seth kung pwedeng tabi kami. Uupo na sana ako kahit na walang upuan nang bigla niyang nilagyan ng upuan yung pwestong uupuan ko. Naisip ko na ngang ayoko na tapos nangyari pa yun.
- Pinagpatuloy namin ni Ate Seth yung Open ForumT_T Sinabi niyang mahal niya ako for the first timeT_T Thank you Ate Seth.
- Kahit na may kumakanta sa harap, kay Ma’am Moyo kami nakatingin kasi nagli-lip sing siya sa part na mataas haha:D
- Nung paakyat na si Mama Kat sa stage, sinabunutan siya ng mga katabi niya. haha:D
- Grabe nung sa 4th year na, yung malaki yung trophy, naputol yung tuktok ng trophy.
- Umalis na. Nakita ko si April at ipinakilala niya ako kay Eric. Di naman siya nag-hello sa akin pero naka-smile naman siya at nakipag-shake hands:)
- Pumunta na sa room at kinuha ang bag ko. Humingi ng advice kay Paul.
- Umuwi na kasabay sila Ate Shai at Debbie.
Bakit ayaw ko sa mga OPEN FORUM?
Eh yan yung tanging cause kung bakit hindi nagkakaroon ng matibay na samahan ang isang grupo eh. Yan yung Words na akala natin may ikabubuti, pero ang hindi natin alam, lalong nakasasama. Bakit? Dahil jan, nasasaktan ang isang tao. Pwede namang sabihin nung mga oras na nakagawa na ng kasalanan yung tao eh diba? Para saakin, mas okay yun. Para maaga pa, naiitatama niya na. Habang tumatagal kasi, lalong nagkakanda-patong patong eh mas lalong bumibigat, mas lalong humihirap. Buti yung magsasalita, walang epekto. Ano naman sa kanya diba? Pano pala kung isang tao lang yung kinaiinisan? Eh sobrang sakit nun para sa kanya? Hindi natin alam kung gaano yun kahirap para sa kanya. Sabihin nating sinabi niyang okay lang naman para sa kanya. Pero, hindi yun ganun kadali.
Bago tayo gumawa ng mga hakbang, isipin muna natin yung mga posibleng kahihinatnan ng hakbang na gagawin natin. Lalo na kung may mga taong madadamay. Meron tayong right na sabihin yung mga hinaing natin, pero sana, ilagay naman natin ito sa lugar.
Dear Marilyn, are you going to be traveling to Starlight Shores anytime soon? I think you would fit in perfectly among the superstars!
I will certainly visit, that is for sure! But that glitzy town is more about singing and circus stuff. What I really want is to be a movie star and it seems like Bridgeport is the place to be for that! I mean, look at this studio!

It has an entire replica of a Medieval town! Shoot, it has a replica of everything. And the local movie theater here? All I have to say is Wow!

Now that is where I want my first big movie opening!
But I do confess, I am a fickle thing. Who knows, tomorrow I may decide I want to be a magician. I will certainly keep you posted though.
Thanks ever so much for the question Christian. <3 xoxo -MM
Open Forum.
Madalas sa klase at sa mga magkakaibigan ang gumagawa nito, para maliwanagan daw at maayos yung mga issue na nangyari. Para matapos na ang lahat ng gusot na namamagitan sa inyo.
Nung highschool kami, palagi din kami sa ganiyan pero bigla na lang nagstop. Bakit? Kasi ayaw ng teacher namin, pinakaayaw daw niya yan sa lahat. Bakit? Kasi sa oras na nagpa-open forum ka, labasan yan ng tunay na nararamdaman, may mga malalaman ka na duon lang ioopen ng iba. Pagkatapos masaraduhin at maliwanagan ang lahat sa isang issue, may bago na naman darating kasi after the open forum may mga makakating dila na naman na maguusap usap about dun sa napagusapan kani-kanina lang.
Minsan akala natin eh okay na wala ng gulo pero maya maya eh may another issue na naman na kailangang ayusin. Nasa tao naman talaga ang problema eh, kung tumitigil na lang sila sa pagtsitsismisan edi wala ng problema kaso ewan ayaw nilang tapusin, gusto pa din ng gulo. Mga plastic!
Kaya ayokong umiiyak eh.
Grabe, umiyak ako kanina sa room. Hindi ko inexpect ‘yun. Ang dugyot ko talaga tignan kapag umiiyak, parang batang inagawan ng candy tapos hindi na alam ang gagawin. Tapos ‘yung boses ko, wala na, mukhang puro plema na. Tsaka ‘yung utak ko, ayun, blowing in the wind na din. Hahahaha. Hay, ayoko ng ganito. Mami-miss ko suotin ‘yung uniform ko na sinuot ko ng four years. Last day na bukas.
Ang pag-aamin ni James
Naalala ko noong second to the last day ko sa previous school ko. Wala kaming magawa. Sobrang bored na kaming lahat. Kaya naisipan ng iba naming kaklase na mag-open forum nalang dahil malapit na ngang mag-end yung school year tapos after 2 days ay aalis na ako.
Agad na pumasok sa ulo ko yung crush ko noon, yung 2 years kong minahal ng totoo kahit na hindi niya ako minahal. Naisip ko na sabihin ko nalang sa kanya at sa lahat ng mga kaklase ko at sa harap na rin ng boyfriend niya (na balita ko break na raw sila ngayon. Lol.) ang totoo kong nararamdaman para sa kanya.
Noong nagsimula na yung open forum, nagsimula na rin akong makaramdam ng kaba at takot. Kinakabahan at natatakot ako noon kasi baka pagtawanan lang ako ng mga kaklase ko, baka isipin lang nila na ang OA ko, at baka ano pa yung gagawin ng boyfriend na noon sa’kin. Sa sobrang kaba at takot ko, medyo nagpahuli nalang ako sa pagshare. At noong tinawag na nga yung pangalan ko ay nagsimula na akong umiyak. Tapos ay nagsalita na ako…
“Eto ha, uunahin ko lang talaga ‘to.
*Insert former crush’s name here*, alam mo naman siguro na noong first year palang ay may pagtingin na’ko sa’yo. Ewan ko ba kung bakit ikaw, pero nahulog talaga ako sa’yo. Kahit na naging kami noon ni *Insert ex’s name here*, ay hindi pa rin nawala yung pagtingin ko sa’yo. Hanggang ngayon nga ay ganoon pa rin. *Insert her name again here*, mahal na mahal pa rin kita. Alam mo ba noong una kong nalaman na naging kayo ni *Insert her ex here* ay parang gumuho talaga yung mundo ko. Ang sakit. Sobrang sakit. Pero sige lang, kakayanin ko nalang ‘to para sa’yo at para na rin sa boyfriend mo.
At para sa’yo naman *insert her ex again here*, ‘wag kang mag-alala. Hindi ko na kukunin sa’yo yung pinakamamahal mo. Sa’yo na iyan. Sana ay magtagal kayo. Stay strong ha!
Bahala na kayo diyan kung sasabihin niyong OA ako or ano pa. Basta ito talaga ang nararamdaman ko at ngayon ko lang talaga sasabihin ‘to.”
Grabe. Nanginginig talaga ako noon habang nagsasalita. Hindi ko alam kung bakit ko iyon nasabi. “Parang nagpagago lang ako”, sabi ko sa sarili. Pero at the same time, parang naalis na rin sa puso ko yung napakalalim na espadang tumusok dito dati. Todo hagulgol ako noon noong matapos na akong magsalita. At noong tumingin na ako ulit sa paligid, umiiyak na rin pala siya at yung iba kong mga kaklase. Tapos yung boyfriend niya naman tulala. At pagkatapos kong umamin sa kanya ay sinabi ko na rin yung ibang mga saloobin ko sa iba kong mga kaklase. Humingi na rin ako ng patawad sa kanila at nagpasalamat. Masasabi ko talagang iyon ang isa sa mga hinding-hindi ko malilimutan na araw ng buhay ko.
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If You Don't Ask, the Answer Will Always Be No | OPEN Forum
openforum.comA great article from Jean Chatzky (@jeanchatzky) on the OPEN Forum.
Chances are, your healthcare costs have been headed in one direction over the last few years. That would be up. Whether we’re talking about insurance premiums (up 41 percent since 2003 according to research by The Commonwealth Fund), deductibles (up 77 percent), prescriptions or copays, the answer to how much of a share of your monthly nut is eaten up by healthcare is more, often much more.
So what can you do about it?
How about negotiating? Actually asking for a better deal from your doctor, your local hospital, from any provider of medical services. I know, you were likely raised to believe this is heresy. Doctors are to be respected. Questioning them about the treatment they recommend is hard enough (that’s why so many second-opinion getters continue to do so quietly) but questioning them about whether they could see you for less? It sounds like a complete and total no-no. It’s not…
I think people forget that Tumblr is still the internet. Yes, youre entitled to post whatever content you wish, but people are also entitled to their feelings and opinions. If you don’t want people commenting, then you could make your posts private. People don’t know us personally. All they have to go on is their interpretation of our posts. I think more of us need to remember that when posting. We are all entitled to our differing opinions. If you don’t agree with their take on you, fine. It doesnt mean you are what they think you are. It doesn’t mean you arent either. Just means they have a different opinion. Shrug. :) I had to remind myself of this after I was told I was self hating.
LEAP talk
Last feb. 5, 2013 I was invited along with my closest friends in the blogging industry Gerd Perez, Dani Barretto, Mikyle Quizon and Christin Liwag to give a talk in one of DLSU’s LEAP class. As I said in my previous post, we talked about Blogging as a business. To begin with I am not a business major and I only know some business skills because of my dad who taught me how to handle and juggle a business so I’m really not the best person to ask about how to handle business lol. Instead of too much business talk in the LEAP class I talked about how and why I started blogging, what are the opportunities, how it changed my life and of course some business tips (maisingit lang). Anyway I was really surprised a lot went to the talk and I was really happy because they were asking so may questions ( feeling ko tuloy sobrang talino ko! hahaha! joke lang yun! minsan lang magfeeling. ) . Thank you so much to everyone who went to the talk! This was actually my 2nd time to talk infront of a crowd, it was a good experience to talk again because I’ve been trying to step out of my comfort zone. I just don’t want to take photos and post outfit posts because I also want to share my insights,opinions and knowledge about this industry personally! I hope you guys learned a lot from our talk! looking forward to the next one! Here are some photos from the talk! :)

Gerd was the first one to give a talk! ang-cute lang ng power point presentation niya! effort award goes to Gerd for having good graphics! haha!


then I was next! well… according to my friends I was the longest one to talk but I actually didn’t notice that! hahaha! maybe I had fun while I was infront and sharing my knowledge about this industry! I hope you guys had fun while I was giving a talk! hahaha! :))


then came the love birds! Dani and Kyle! they were to sweet to begin with. Ants were biting them while they were giving a talk! lol! just kidding! but they were naturally sweet and lovable to look at! lakas ng chemistry ni ate at koya! haha!


the last blogger to talk was Christine but she didn’t focus on her blog but the success of her baby, Cravemore. Now that’s a real business! I think she has the most experience when it comes to business and making moola! If you guys have any questions on how to make a business successful, I think she’s the best person to ask to! haha!

Thank you to everyone who help me on making this talk possible! you guys know who you are and thank you so much to Thea Gardose and her team for making this event possible and trusting me on sharing my knowledge about blogging! KUNG HEI FAT CAI TO ALL MY CHANEESSSEEE FUH-RIEEENDS!!!!
Siguro kung may away sa mga magkakaibigan, idaan na lang sa 'open forum'.
Sa open forum kasi nasasabi yung mga saloobin o hinanakit tungkol sa kinaiinisan mo sa grupo niyong magkakaibigan. Dito nao-open yung buong istorya, kung paano nagsimula at kung paano naka-apekto sa iba. Minsan kasi kapag sobrang galit ka na sa isang tao, nandiyan yung hindi mo na lang siya papansinin at magtatanim ka ng sama ng loob sa kanya. Para sa akin, ito ang hindi isang tunay na kaibigan. Sobrang sarado ng isip niya at ayaw niyang makipag-ayos sayo. Kaya kung may kaibigan kang nag-effort na mapag-usapan ng maayos yung mga hindi niyo pagkakaintindihan bilang magkakabarkda, sana hindi ka magalit o magtanim ng sama ng loob sa kanila kasi doon mo nalalaman yung totoong saloobin nila sayo at naging open sila sayo at kaya nila ginagawa iyon ay para magkaayos kayo at hindi para isumbat sayo lahat ng pagkakamali mo. Buksan lang ang isipan at tanggapin niyo ang isa’t-isa. Ayos lang umiyak pero sa huli, magkakaibigan pa rin kayo at maayos lahat ng problemang pinagdaanan niyo :)
*Open forum sa room*
Classmate1: Naiinis ako kay angel
Ako: Wow
Classmate1: Moody kasi sya eh. Dati naman di sya ganyan
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Classmate2: Sbi ko nga dati, ano…
Ako: *Nakikinig*
Classmate2: Di ko talaga mahuli kung ano yung ugali ni angel tska *tooot*
Ako: *Nagulat*
lahat naman sila alam ko na ugali, di ko alam kung bakit di ko mahuli yung sainyong dalawa.
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Classmate3: Naiinis din ako kay angel
Ako: Wow. *Bumulong sa katabi ko* Im winning. :)
Classmate3: Parang ganun din. Moody kasi. Tapos di din kita maintindihan minsan, di ko din mahuli ugali mo. Dalawang taon na tayo naging mgkaklase pero ngayon ko lang masyado nakikita totoo mong ugali. Pero atleast naiintidihan ko na ngayon.