I’m not asking you to ship and/or like the same characters that I do. I think that I respect all opinions, all I’d like is the same courtesy. I’m sure that you wouldn’t like if I bash your ship, so PLEASE don’t be a hypocrite defending your ship by bashing another.

And remember, going from disliking a fiction character to actually make rude comments about the actor/actress is one step too far.

Sometimes I look at my Tumblr dash

and I see girls posting about the perfect guy, or the perfect relationship. You guys know that doesn’t exist right? Do you guys even know what a serious relationship is like? Because the stuff you reblog is nothing like real life. 

I’m also not coming from a bitter heart. I’m in a very serious relationship, with my soul mate. My absolute one and only. But nothing is perfect. 

We don’t cuddle all the time. We don’t have to be in each others arm all the time. We don’t even sit in the same room half the time. Like right now. I’m sitting in bed typing this and he’s in the living room looking up writing agents in L.A. Occasionally I’ll call his name and tell him that I love him or he’ll come in here just to kiss me but other than that we’re ok like this.

Also, there will be fights. We had a hard core fight not too long ago. Don’t think that just because you’re in love that there will be no fights. There will always be bumps in the road. 

Yet again. Nothing is perfect. 

Also it’s not up to the guy to deal with YOUR stuff. You also have to deal with his. He may have issues too. 

If you believe that relationships are this peachy fucking keen thing that never goes wrong you’re sadly mistaken. You’re setting yourself up for heartache. 

You should always know that nothing is perfect.