Here's an idea...

If you don’t want to conform, then be yourself. Constantly whining and complaining about wanting to “not fit in” just makes you look like you want to fit in. Some of us were born weird and never have fit in and didn’t have to dye our hair or make a statement in order to do it…we were just ourselves. Maybe if you let go of your age hang ups, and just got on with your life, you’d see there is no reason to make “statements” because you can just do things because you want to. Stop trying to hard to “not fit in”…it makes you boring and pretty damned dumb.