geminidragonjasminealexandra replied to your post: just ranting’ ‘bout creeps in real life, don’t mind me.

maybe he is just awkward. is he unattractive? does he smell bad? it is cruel to just brush him off & not give him a chance. yes, he may be clingy but what if he is lonely & kills himself? would you feel bad? i say, give him a chance to be a friend.

telling me to ditch my friends and eat with him instead so he can eat alone with me does not look to me like someone who is lonely and wants to make a friend. In fact, someone who’s just lonely would say “invite them too!”, instead of “tell them you’ll be eating with me for dinner.” Telling me that “i’m interesting because i’m clueless about the chinese culture and that i don’t understand anything that’s why it’s funny” even though we’ve never talked before and he knows pretty much nothing about me and the way he said it was extremely insulting, texting me over and over again with texts like “where’ve you been”, ”talk”, “why aren’t you talking”, “i missed you”, when i have never spoken to him before in my life, is not going to get me to like ANYONE, no matter if it’s a beautiful girl or an attractive man. To me, this behavior is just creepy, and I’d simply be creeped out by anyone who does this to me. I haven’t said anything rude to him at all; i’ve been telling him that I don’t want to go eat dinner with him, and that i don’t like to give out my phone numbers to people I don’t know well, and he just kept talking as if I had not said anything. 

Do I REALLY have to give a person that creeps me out a chance? A person that’s doing that to other girls too, no less? and if he might be lonely and may or may not kill himself, is it really MY responsibility? sorry, but I’m not going to take what I feel is harassment and “befriend” him (which he’ll probably just see as me liking him….urgh) just because he might be lonely, especially a person who’s next to a stranger to me. I’ll be honest with you here - if someone kills themselves because i won’t go out with them, it’s not going to make me feel guilty. I’m not responsible for their actions. they should seek professional help instead, and that’s not me. You might find me cold-hearted but for me to I give up my happiness and comfort and ignore my feelings for a stranger, that’s just….i just can’t do that. sorry this might be a little ranty, it’s just you sound like it’s somehow MY fault that he doing these things to me and somehow i should just take it gladly