“I decided that I loved feminists and embraced feminism. Not only does feminism give woman a voice, but it also clears the way for men to free themselves from the stranglehold of traditional masculinity. When we hurt the women in our lives, we hurt ourselves, and we hurt our community, too. ”—Byron Hurt, Why I am a Male Feminist.
“Men can be great feminist allies, but because of their privileged positions as men and because they cannot understand firsthand what patriarchal oppression feels like, it’s important for men to take a supportive role.”—“Feminism Needs Men, Too” by Lauren Rankin, at Policy Mic.
I don't know how to be any more clear about this
Men are NOT oppressed by women or feminism, they are afraid of their privilege being taken away so they react to it by forming men’s rights bullshit. Men face issues caused by patriarchy, which we feminists are trying to smash! We want equality god dammit.