“I'm supposed to wait around for someone special, while every other girl in this town gets to have a life?"
It was true. Men could be with whomever they pleased. But women had to date better, kinder, richer, and bright, bright, bright, or else people got embarrassed..."I'm a very average person," she said desperately, somehow detecting that Charlotte already knew that, knew the deep, dark, wildly obvious secret of that, and how it made Sidra slightly pathetic, unseemingly- inferior, when you got right down to it.”
—Lorrie Moore, “Willing” (from The Birds of America)