Imagine your favorite character wrapping around you in a protective hug in the presence of your second-favorite character because they don’t want to share your attention
Imagine your favorite character disliking how much time you spend on the computer, so they change your log in password. To get it back, you have to hang out with your favorite character first
“...if your partner loves and respects you and wants to do right by your relationship, then you don't need to place controls on his behavior; his behavior will reflect the fact that he wants to do right by you, and does so because he chooses to, not because you make him. As Shelly wrote elsewhere, behavior is an emergent phenomenon. You don't actually control your partner's heart by controlling his behavior. If your partner's heart is not really with your relationship, making rules won't protect your relationship; if your partner's heart is with your relationship, making rules to protect the relationship is unnecessary.”
