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Hostile Environment Course
This is weekend I just undertook the Hostile Environment Course and it was amazing. It was very intense course, which had a large amount of information to take in. Though its content was extremely relavent and useful covering; avoiding mines, escaping under fire, navigation, first aid, kidnapping and lots more. Everything we covered in this course was then put into real life scenarios that we as a team would have deal with. If considering going into photojournalism I would highly recommend this course.
“When you realize that what you react to in others, is also in you (and sometimes only in you), you begin to become aware of your own ego.”—
Eckhart Tolle (via elige)
This is really the key to dealing with the anger, negativity and hostility of others. It is very easy to say and hard to do. We are designed by nature to be social animals. We are SUPPOSED to be affected by the emotions of others in our little tribe it is part of our communication process.
However, we no longer exist in small tribes on the African veldt. We no longer need to react as a group to the movement of predators or the incursion of a rival tribe. Now, if we are to remain unruffled in the midst of emotional chaos and a storm of emotion directed at us by a friend, coworker, teacher, parent, sibling, lover or even a stranger, we must learn mindful detachment.
This takes much practice. The key is to actively resist the instinct to react to the anger or hostility. We don’t take it personally. We understand the other person is caught up in their own emotional storm. We let the storm flow through us. We focus on our breathing and our solar plexus using our breath to keep ourselves calm and even. This method of deflection of an opponent’s force rather than direct opposition, that of passive strength, will be familiar to those who practice martial arts. We become as the willow, bending in the face of tempest and in so being we are stronger than the oak which must resist or break.
You will not get this the first time. Maybe not even the second time or even the third. Take every opportunity where you are the brunt of another’s anger to work on this skill. Treat it as an opportunity. You will get it eventually. Don’t be surprised at the strange way people will respond when you remain calm. They will be baffled, they will not know what to do when you don’t react in your usual way. Eventually they will give up and choose a more satisfying target. Do not be condescending or smug. That sort of emotion is still engaging in the drama and will render your efforts ineffective. Rather be as the morning mist when the summer wind blows. Let the emotion swirl around you and through you while you remain unaffected.
When could the Han Chinese be friendly to you?
When you are friendly to other people, you would think other people should be friendly back.
And when other people are friendly to you, you would think you should be friendly to them too.
And you would think you should expect the hostility from others if you are hostile to others. And, if other people are hostile to you, you can also be hostile to them.
But, if you fight the Han Chinese, they will be friendly to you. And if you are friendly to them, they will fight you.
Because all of the typical Han Chinese grow the mentality of “surrendering to the bullies and finding another to bully”. That’s their unconscious conduct.