Hi James! I've been following Ashley for a while, but I started following you relatively recently. I have a question: how can a girl/woman be mysterious? Many of my guy friends look for a girl who is "mysterious," and I was wondering how a girl/woman can create that mystery [that Ashley seems to have and you seem to want, as well :) ] other than dressing modestly. Thanks!

Hi Madison,

You know how most women say they want a man with a great sense of humor … but everyone’s sense of humor is different? It’s sort of the same thing with men and feminine mystique. 

Everyone wants it, but it looks different for each person.

For me, feminine mystique means that a man has to wait and work for a woman’s love. She doesn’t open up all of herself to him right away. Instead, he has to earn her trust, show his love and prove his commitment. And only then does she open her heart to him.

God makes valuable things hard to get. Gold and diamonds are all buried deep in the ground. Not everyone can reach them. And those who can have to work hard to do it.

It should be the same with you. A woman’s heart is far more valuable than gold and diamonds. A man should have to work hard to get it.

But that’s just what I think. :P

Peace, love and Jesus,
-James