Revelation.

Okay… i normally just reblog funny pictures of cats so I’m relatively new at this. Bear with me here. So here’s my issue. Why all of a sudden, and to me it’ seemingly out of nowhere that this started, do people constantly feel the need to say “don’t judge me butttttt” or ” i judge” or some sort of combination of words using the word judge. JUDGE. What the fuck though. Really? I don’t remember, up until recently, ever having to say that EVER. And trust me I was weird in middle and most of high school so I probably would have warranted a lot of “judging”. But seriously. WHO GIVES A FUCK. People are people and people will do what people will do. People are going to be who they are and who gives a fuck if it’s not that same as you. That doesn’t mean you have to “judge” them. You don’t know the backstory behind people, you don’t know what got people to be who they are now, why they act the way they do, why they dress the way they do, or why they even say the things they say. Now I’m not saying that I’m perfect because I personally have said “don’t judge” and “ooh judgement face” but you know what? I’m going to stop. Because you want to know what it comes off as when you say things like “I judge”… it comes across as if you think you are better than that person. Like you have some sort of fucking rainbow shining out your asshole that you can say those sort of things. I hear it all the time. I say it. I heard it customers at work say it, and outside of a situation including myself is how I realized what the fuck it sounds like. I thought to myself… huh.. that doesn’t sound very nice. The girl said it with such an awful “I’m so much better than her” kind of tone. Seriously though. NO. First of all you’re in public, don’t talk like that. Second of all, thank you, mean girl. If it were not for you I wouldn’t be having this revelation. So actually I guess I’m glad you said those things. But whatever. So the next time someone says something to me like “I’m judging you” or “I judge” or some sort of shit like that… I’m going to ask why. This fucking word needs to die. I don’t care how accepting you claim to be… if you use the word “judge”  YOU ARE NOT ACCEPTING. TRUE FACT. If people were as accepting as they fucking claim to be, people would realize that they are all different types of people and everyone is going to do things differently. We’re young. There’s no right or wrong way to live. When people “judge” others it just ruins everyone’s good time. When did other people’s opinions start to matter so much?! SO HOW ABOUT WE ALL MAKE A PROMISE?! Let’s stop using this word and start to accept people for who they are and what they do. Because no one is better than anyone. Except maybe Mother Teresa and Ghandi. If you are one of those two people I don’t care what the fuck you say. But since you’re not. STOP IT. Just stop. Because it’s terrible. And rude. So I’m ending it. You should too. Of course that’s your choice. If you don’t, that’s fine. That’s what you WANT to do. We’re all humans doing what we want to do. PEACE OUT, TUMBLR.