Love Sex and Magic ~ the column
The column that’s an aphrodisiac for sex, love, and relationships..
Dear YS,
It’s almost summer and I gained a ton of weight during the winter. I love to eat so much. Now I feel like no one is going to want me. I don’t look good in my bikini anymore. I’m dreading the summer. Help me! What should I do? I’m too chunky to be seen in the Hamptons!
Dear Chunky,
Girl, you better put down the fried chicken, cheese burgers, pizza, and all the other yummy yet fattening food that are so easy to get to in NYC. I know it is hard; I’m a huge foodie myself (as if you hadn’t noticed). But those foods creep up on a girl like ex on Facebook.
One thing that I do to loose weight is of course cut back on sweets and try to find sweets that aren’t bad for me like fruit or organic chocolates/desserts. Once you do your taste buds will change and help you out. You will crave crap less!
I recommend eating raw as well. I know it may sound unappealing but it is not as bad as it sounds. There as just as many raw food recipes as there are for cooked food. What eating raw does is help you get back to your natural weight and cleanses your body. You will loose weight just by shifting your eating. Now I’m not saying go raw 100% just simply incorporate it into your diet gradually!
And it’s a good thing that you know you are not still able to rock your bikini like you did last year and you aren’t trying to squeeze into it. That would be a fashion “oh no you didn’t”. Go shopping for a new bikini (and wrap if it makes you feel more comfortable). Remember sexy is a frame of mind, so rock that new bikini with style. And don’t forget to work out, it will help you get in shape quicker and easier, plus you will feel luscious!
If you have a question for me write me at shoshi@lusciouslifestylediva.com
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