Today has been a really great birthday! What makes it better is that I am home and sleeping in my own bed and not in a hotel, and that Andrew is home in california! I am SO ready to spend these next 3 weeks making the most amazing memories with him before he deploys! He is the man of my dreams, just the way he makes me feel so special and loved. His gift wasn’t something he bought, but something he’d made while in NC! A whole scrapbook of us! You bet i cried my eyes out! He wrote the story of our 2 years of dating in his perspective, from when he rear ended my car in the parking lot, to when I surprised him in the airport. It was ADORABLE i think i’ve read it like 78 million times now and It still never fails to put a smile on my face!
I’m writing Andrew a long letter, even though he hasn’t deployed yet, I just feel like this letter I want to be far better than my other ones. I want him to be able to read this letter and for it to put a smile on his face when he’s having a bad day! I DONT WANT HIM TO LEAVE. writing this letter is making it seem all the more real and I do not like it
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Once when we got in our first huge fight, he sat outside my open window and just talked about how much he loved me after he’d done that he just starting talking and telling me stories. He was there for like 2 hours before I said anything back to him!
our-little-miracles said: add him later, I just went through this
youmeandsavannamakesthree said: They add him later. I have to do the same thing :/
californiabelle said: this happened with my sister as well, and they just add him later, though his name can still be put on the certificate until he gets home :)
theawkwardlifeofnatalee said: Can’t you still say he’s the father? Ask you doctor
nnyynnaa said: I’m pretty sure you can add him on when he gets home.
DO ANY OF YOU KNOW IF IT WILL AFFECT GETTING HER ENROLLED IN DEERS AT ALL? I HAVE EVERYTHING ELSE LIKE OUR P.O.A, BUT WILL HIM NOT BEING ON IT AFFECT THAT AT ALL? HE WILL BE GONE FOR A GOOD 2 OR 3 (OR MORE WHO KNOWS) MONTHS AFTER SHE IS BORN AND I WANT TO GET HER ENROLLED ASAP.
californiabelle said: i don’t think its more that ‘you’ want a gift, but that others know it was such hard work, that they feel like the only thing they can do is get you a gift maybe?
oh no thats totally different! :P lol i was talking about expecting a present from my husband for giving birth not him just surprising me for being proud of me or knowing it was hard work.
ambasaywhat said: Wait… I’m pretty sure the gifts are for the new baby being welcomed to the world, right?
no im talking about a mother expecting a gift from her significant other for giving birth and feeling as if she deserves it for giving birth. thats what this whole “push present” trend it about.
I wouldn’t accept the request! Ex’s are Exs for a reason! ;)
Yea :/ I’m friends with some of my exes, but they’re the first 2, so it’s been YEARS since we’d dated. I think I’ll just leave it there for a while. Get the boyfriend’s input. I would be completely content if I never spoke to him (the ex) again. But we did have something of a friendship. I donno