At first Operation: Rhododendron Skookum was a no-go, first he dropped a deuce, then tried to eat the flower, twice, but we got there eventually! 🌸
Being into the "noncon(rape) kink" just because you think "some" survivors "might" use it as a coping mechanism doesn't justify you as a non-survivor doing the same. You're kind of using their experiences to excuse yourself of some really unhealthy stuff that is viewed by hundreds, if not thousands. That's really not okay. I wish you the best but I hope you eventually think of the people you're harming or the abusers you're supporting before you think of yourself.