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WOW!  i cant believe i actually got these decent looking.  but!! i made 9 outfits for F sims on aelia’s androgyny opens boots mesh (graciously reuploaded 4 me by azaya) and i thought i would share them.  someone asked me the other day ‘drew why do u not have any trans male sims?’ or something along those lines and i was like ‘well there aren’t very many clothes that rly fit my ~style~ cause even my cismale sims have a certain style that i wasnt rly seeing replicated for F sims so i decided to make some on my own.  anyway pls lmk if i messed anything up, im still kinda new at making stuff and this involved a lot of mashing together textures and alphas so who knows what could have gone wrong haha.  mesh is included :) textures yanked from azaya, club crimsyn, jessy, and a sweater that i got from the default database but there is only has a direct download link to it so idk who made it~ i didnt make a swatch i just didnt rly feel like it ehehh

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there’s a new guy at work and he was like “also i think it’s really weird that a girl (meaning moi) has the same haircut as me” and I was like well bro I guess I’m just one of the cool kids 😎 what u gonna do

squeeful replied to your post:OH MY GOD FUCK THIS CIVIL WAR WHAT IF “YOU FORGOT…

The What-If makes me grr because it hinges on “Tony talks to Steve and all is happy” but doesn’t touch on the actual CW plotline being partly “Cap refuses to listen”.

I agree. From what I hear, there were times when Tony went to Cap, but Cap refused to listen. Probably because Tony didn’t put himself in a position of *flails for word* weakness(? no, not really, but that’s what I got). Hmm. Supplication? Explicit supplication? Such as a how a woman would have to talk to a man to get conversation started so they can actually address things?

I feel like the only people who are truly accepting me (as in my identity) is my coach, one of my really good friends, and my older sister.

My hair was being simultaneously fluffy and floppy yesterday, figured I should memorialize it.

I love this weeks episodes so much!!!! we get canon genderless gem datemates!!!! so you can use gender neutral pronouns for garnet like “they,them,their” and derail people who say genderless pronouns are not grammatically correct because there’s two in one!!!! sorry that just got me giddy and that argument is annoying.

Also a little ranting in the tags cause it’s kinda bugging me but feel free to not read. I’m not looking to stir up trouble.

Rules: When you get tagged the game is to write a note with 85 truths about yourself. After that you’re supposed to tag 25 people. You also have to tag the person who tagged you. Let’s all get to know each other!

i wasn’t tagged by anyone but i’m avoiding my gender studies readings and this looks like fun

What was your:
1. Last beverage: iced tea
2. Last phone call: my uncle
3. Last text: “no worries” to my brother
4. Last song: Georgia by Vance Joy 
5. Last time you cried: i can’t really remember but i think i had a nightmare and woke up crying

Have you ever:
6. Dated someone twice: yes. and then again because bad things come in three
7. Been cheated on: no
8. Kissed anyone and regretted it: ohhh yeah
9. Lost someone special: yes
10. Been depressed: yes

List your three favourite colours:
11. green 
12. purple
13. the deep red of the blood of my enemies

In the last year have you:
14. Made a new friend: yep! many
15. Fallen out of love: i fell out of love with a fandom. if that counts?
16. Laughed until you cried: so much 
17. Met someone who changed you: i don’t think so
18. Found out who your true friends are: no. i have no friends. none.
19. Found out someone was talking about you: yeah. indirectly online. classy.
20. Kissed anyone on your FB list: no
21. How many people do you know on your FB list: most if not all of them!
22. Kissed a stranger: …maybe
23. Drank hard liquor: and regurgitated hard liquor!

24. Lost glasses/contacts: found them under my butt
25. Had sex on a first date: nope
26. Broken someone’s heart: doubtful
27. Been arrested: nope
28. Turned someone down: nope 
29. Cried when someone died: yes
30. Fallen for a friend: yeah. and in all the years i’ve known him i don’t think he’s dated anyone. and i don’t know whether to take that as a positive or a negative.

Randoms:

31. Do you have any pets: a lizard lives under my front porch. i named it charlie.
32. Do you want to change your name: nah, it goes alright
33. What did you do for your last birthday party: i think my last party was a surprise party for my 18th. two surprise parties for my 18th!
34. What time did you wake up this morning: 10.41 precisely. i remember because it was not supposed to happen.
35. What were you doing at midnight last night: i was probs on tumblr honestly.
36. Something you can’t wait for: this weekend! next wednesday! my 21st birthday! next weekend! semester break! easter! ALL THE THINGS
37. Last time you saw your mother: like an hour ago maybe?
38. One thing you wish you could change about your life: i wish i could be more organised and actually bloody do my uni work before the day it’s due!
39. What are you listening to right now: crickets and frogs and possums
40. Have you ever talked to a Tom: yes. he was my older brother’s hot friend. i got food poisoning and threw up in front of him. fun times.
41. What’s getting on your nerves: free-loaders
42. Most viewed webpage: probs tumblr

43. Nickname: han. hanjulbibble (i don’t even know)
44. Relationship status: single
45. Zodiac sign: aries
46. College: university!
47. Hair colour: blonde with pink highlights
48. Long or short: shoulder length? 
49. Height: 164cm
50. Do you have a crush on someone: ugh yes i hate it
51. What do you like about yourself: my eyes and my hair and my sense of humour and my loyalty 

52. Tattoos: i want one but i’m too chicken 
53. Right or left handed: right
54. First piercings: ears

55. First best friend: ashley and georgia from pre-school! we bonded over our jelly sandals! 
56. First Vacation: germany when i was less than one and spent the whole trip terrorising my parents and turning it on for everyone else
57. Drinking: the blood tears of my enemies
58. About to: shower and then panic over all the uni work that i haven’t done

Your Future:
59. Want kids: yes!
60. Get married: yes
61. Career: i have no freaking clue. preferably not an office job though.

Which is better?: (NO DISCRIMINATION/DISRESPECT)
62. Lips or eyes: eyes
63. Hugs or kisses: hugs. cuddles. snuggles. 
64. Shorter or taller: taller
65. Older or younger: older
66. Romantic or spontaneous: romantic
67. Nice stomach or arms: arms
68. Loud or sensitive: sensitive
69. Hook-up or relationship: honestly, right now…
70. Trouble maker or hesitant: trouble maker 
71. Kissed a stranger?: yes. it was excruciatingly awkward. never again.
72. Drank hard liquor: yes. and i have been turned off tequila for life. never again. again. 
73. Lost glasses/contacts: i feel like i’ve answered this before
74. Had sex on a first date: these questions are being repeated
75. Broken someone’s heart: i refuse to keep answering these
76. Been arrested: i demand a lawyer 
77. Turned someone down: this is a sloppy investigation
78. Cried when someone died: i categorically deny murdering anyone 
79. Fallen for a friend: give me my one phone call 

Do you believe in:
80. Yourself: more often than not but still working on it
81. Miracles: where you from? you sexy thing 
82. Love at first sight: waiting for proof
84. Santa clause: YES. WITH ALL MY HEART AND SOUL AND EVERY FIBRE OF MY BEING 
85. Kisses on first dates: if it’s a good date

i’m tagging anyone who wants to do this!

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It’s late and I need to go to sleep but going to sleep means I’ll have to get up

So i was just thinking, being raised as a catholic i have never understood why most are against people who don’t identify as a person from a specific gender, and that identify as gender fluid or nonbinary; i mean i was always taught that neither God or the angles have a specific gender, that they are neither as well as they are both, so why can’t my human siblings be like that too? We were created in God’s image afterall so to me that means they are closer to what my god and my angles would look like than any other gender specific person. And that makes me happy.