we have been friends for 5 years

Kids are getting meaner

Story time
Okay so my sister is in the 5th grade and she is a tush overweight. When I was in Elementary school I was even larger than her, and i had to shop in the women’s department when I entered 7th grade. My sister is super sweet and she is very smart, but all the kids make fun of her at school. She comes home crying all the time. She says she doesn’t want to live because she gets called names and even physically harmed. These aren’t just you average “plump” names (that if u would have said 5 years ago u would have been killed by your parents). Phrases like “fat ass” and “reject” are being used all the time and she believes it. We constantly enforce her to try and love herself but she is taking in so much abuse. All her friends are skinny so they don’t understand why she would be sad and say stuff like “God be quite god you are such a baby”.
Her AND my parents have talked to administrators, teachers, councilors, PARENTS OF BULLYS and NO action is done to the kids except a slap on the wrist and a “don’t say that again”. This is UNEXCEPTABLE. For a CHILD of 11 to think she is WORTHLESS and even wants to die is shameful. She has even self harmed by pinching and scratching deep into her skin in disgust. She eats fruits and vegetables and protein and even stays active but nothing really changes body wise. She is going to middle school next year and she isn’t scared for classes, she is scared for PE, and running in front of other kids in fear of being made fun of. For kids to treat her like this USLESS TRASH is not only immorally wrong but insulting and to be blamed on not only society but PARENTING. For people to think this is “okay” “not a big deal” or “funny”, you know what If I ever loose my sister because of you then let it be on your conscious. Please treat your children, friends and family with respect. Even if you don’t necessarily like them, you still need to treat them kindly, with respect and with openness and expectance. Nobody should ever be ashamed of themselves for being themselves. Be kind to one another.

  • Dan:I don't havE an Y friend s at all!! to do st uff with!!1!! NO One liKES ME I'M SO ALONE!! :(
  • Us:u have like 5 million subscribers??
  • Phil:I l ive with u????? And spend every second?? with u/?
  • Louise:... ur in l ike all my vl ogs?????
  • Jack:??? ????
  • PJ:/We've been close friend for.. years??..?????
  • Cat:ik our friendship is long distance but i exist?????????
  • Carrie:u came to my west end debut and got a free copy of my book??????
  • Felix:We had dinner together and u came to my house ???
  • Anthony:I'm busy but I have spent plenty of time with u??? ??
  • Caspar:u said u. love me?????
  • Tyler:u have my number ?? u can like call me and talk to me?? we are close friends??
  • The entire staff of BBC Radio 1:... we beg u to do more things w us???
  • Actual Nick Jonas:I was in London???
  • Fuckign Pete Wentz:I..tweeted u when ur book was announced ???
  • Everyone on earth:ur like a b-list celebrity??? stop???
  • Dan:SO ALONE !

lmao i just made my brother watch the late late show, he enjoyed the dodgeball skit, said it was perfect if they wanted to show 1d as a fun band of cool guys to older audience; said that louis was totally lying about “everything is good between me and zayn now” (same tbh); also

brother: so the host says that louis is single now and louis smirks like that? yeah i remember a long time ago, remember i had a girlfriend for 2.5 years and then we broke up? let me tell you, if a month or so after that i’d talk about being single with THAT face and all of my friends laughing along, if i talked like that and she somehow could see it, i’d have been in so much trouble, there is NO WAY you have that fucking face while people talk about your recent break up and how much you party now

and

me: did you see what happens when harry tells this story about the bread van

brother: LOL yes he talks for ages and louis is the only one still laughing and listening from what i can see, the other two were so ready to move on, is it always like this

me: ….basically.

all in all, he said that it’s the first interview of 1d he actually liked from start to finish (and he’s seen many of them, THANKS TO ME, SUCH A COOL SISTER I AM), and that he’d be surprised if there are many people who won’t enjoy the show if they see it

The pain is horrible, like nothing I had ever imagined before getting sick. But it’s only a small part of the story. We are denied so much in a life lived with any chronic illness. And to make it worse we are not allowed to take the medications that help, we are denied disability and treatment, we are treated like hypochondriacs and liars even by our doctors and closest friends/family. We are the punchline to jokes.
I’ve been at a level 5/10 at the very best of days for nearly four years. I have not been free from constant head pain in addition to that for the same length of time, I haven’t had one day off. Living with 8/10 pain has become a normal day. It’s not much of a life, though I try to be grateful for what I do have that makes living like a shell of myself slightly more endurable. #Fibromyalgia #OHSU #norelief #itsnotjustpain #invisibleillnessawareness #chronicillness #chronicpain #justmakeitstop #miserable #notgivingup #fuckoffpain

I will say that one thing I've enjoyed immensely about season 6 of TVD is that Damon is aware that even as Bonnie's BESTFRIEND he had to start making better choices.

I saw more growth in Damon as a character this season than I’ve seen in the last 5 years that the show has been on. Now at the moment, he’s growing just to be a good friend to her. Lord have mercy, can you imagine how much growth we’d get if he was trying to be the right man for her? Even though that season finale was not my fav, I’m interested in seeing what season 7 has in store for Bonnie and Damon.

Also: when Matt made a point to tell Bonnie to run because he was so certain that Damon would kill her to get Elena back, I actually looked to the heavens and smiled because Matt is the only one who’s consistent in his love for Bonnie. He’s never has to debate about that shit or weigh his options. He’s down for my girl like a real friend is supposed tobe and if they ever got together I’d be cool with it because I know that he’s always care for her.

we’ve been friends since 7th grade… … over 10 years of friendship… they always said friendship that last more than 5 years will last a life time, and I’m a strong believer. they also say that you will only have a hand full of true friends… and thats tha truth. people come and go but your real friends (family) will always be here. through thick and thin, thru good and bad, they’ve always been here… through break up after breakup, thru tears, thru fights, thru it all… we still here. I thank God for them. Love ya’ll. 

Kai + Damon

Okay Listen up people, please RB this to spread the word. 

Okay now i’m going to give you a comparison to Damon and Kai:

  • Damon had a happy Human life full of love and people caring about him.
  • Kai was called an abomination for 22 years.
  • Damon has killed many people just for fun when he is totally sane. 
  • Kai killed 4/5 siblings because he lost it one day.. and he does have a mental disorder he was a sociopath, who needed help.. but nobody cared about him.
  • Even without stefan Damon had other friends in all the ages.
  • Kai was sent to a prison world for 18 years ALONE again. his always been alone.
  • Damon had 2 epic loves of his life Katharine and Elena.
  • As far as we know Kai never has been in love.
  • Damon when he dies we know his going to have an episode dedicated to him.
  • Kai gets his head chopped off, a 3 second ending. 

And Before i get people saying “Kai killed a pregnant woman” 

So Did Damon !

And Damon didn’t have a reason to kill that pregnant woman.. he just did it. But in the world of TVD Kai had a reason.. he was the Gemini coven leader and didn’t want that taken away from him. 

Then to make it even better… Damon then killed Kai.. a misunderstood witch who needed a friend. 

And they said Kai was Irredeemable. 

anonymous asked:

I need your advice; I like this guy and we've been friends for like a year but we never got like really close, anyway tonight we've had a long convo about pretty deep things. Has he friend zoned me or do you think he may like me? P.s. loove your blog

idk I think you can have deep conversations without having feelings for someone. 

Blog rates because friendship!

Today the alpha bae and I have been friends for a year, so we’re doing blog rates to celebrate with y’all!

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❀ reblog this post please

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❀ send us  (◡ ‿ ◡ ✿) or tell us how long you’ve been friends with your bestie

❀ we’ll do the first 30!

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  • Dan:I don't havE an Y friend s at all!! to do st uff with!!1!! NO One liKES ME I'M SO ALONE!! :(
  • Us:u have like 5 million subscribers??
  • Phil:I l ive with u????? And spend every second?? with u/?
  • Louise:... ur in l ike all my vl ogs?????
  • Jack:??? ????
  • PJ:/We've been close friend for.. years??..?????
  • Cat:ik our friendship is long distance but i exist?????????
  • Carrie:u came to my west end debut and got a free copy of my book??????
  • Felix:We had dinner together and u came to my house ???
  • Anthony:I'm busy but I have spent plenty of time with u??? ??
  • Caspar:u said u. love me?????
  • Tyler:u have my number ?? u can like call me and talk to me?? we are close friends??
  • The entire staff of BBC Radio 1:... we beg u to do more things w us???
  • Actual Nick Jonas:I was in London???
  • Fuckign Pete Wentz:I..tweeted u when ur book was announced ???
  • Everyone on earth:ur like a b-list celebrity??? stop???
  • Dan:SO ALONE !

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My BFF Riley (awesomeswifties) and me at age 8 then –> to us NOW!!!

We are both Swifties and have been BFFs for almost 12 years since the age of 5!! I finally get to see her after one year away from her (from moving) this summer in exactly one month!!!

taylorswift Part of our friendship is because of you when we first heard you in the car on the radio singing ‘Our Song’ and that song is my Best Friend and my’s song!!!

Vacation Ideas

There’s a good chance the big family vacation next year isn’t going to work out. My mom’s going to Italy with her BFF, my sis is going to rent a house in OBX with all her friends and that leaves Wy and I with no definite plans. And my BFF is getting married middle of summer next year so we’d have to go in June or August.

Here are a few places I am thinking for Wy and I to get away to…and if any of you have been to ANY of these locations, please chime in and let me know if they’re family friendly. It will be just Wy (who will be 5 ½ by this point) and I.

Potential Locations:
- Florida Keys
- West Palm Beach
- Ireland
- Hawaii
- Puerto Rico (same as last year)
- San Diego
- Italy
- France
- Nantucket
- Virgin Islands
- Bahamas or Bermuda

Thoughts???

I know they are all over the place. I’d love to go to Ireland. Wy asked to go to Hawaii because he saw it on an episode of Jessie and that’s all he has been talking about all weekend.

Any thoughts on these places for a single mama and her son? I’ve been to several of these places, but obviously pre-child.

I just know I would like to have something great to look forward to and to start planning and saving more for.

meeting internet friends is always exciting but Gülcan and I have been texting every single day for the past two years and she’s like my little sister and tomorrow I’m finally going to meet her and we’ll spend a weekend in Berlin together and see 5 seconds of summer and jesus christ I’m too excited to even pack my bag 

anonymous asked:

Hi! I admire you and your hubby so much. Just wondering, how old were you two when you got engaged and married? My boyfriend and I have been together 3.5 years, this year I will be 19, & he will be 20. We want to get married so badly, we feel it's right in our bones, but there's this stigma of age as you know. We've decided to wait until I turn 21, but get engaged at any time. What is your advice for us? And how do I get this worry of age out of my mind? I hope I'm not rambling... Thank you ❤️

Hey friend! I understand how hard it can be to live for the expectations of others, especially society. We had the same kind of thing, but he’s 4 years older than me so our relationship has always been odd to those who don’t know us or are looking from the outside in, simply because of our age (I was 15 when we started dating and he was 19 and we both liked each other since I was 13 haha). What matters most is not your age but instead your maturity and character. If you both value marriage/a family and the commitment of marriage as well as the fact that it will be hard besides it being an incredible adventure, and if those closest to you agree you’re both ready for marriage also (this isn’t a set-in-stone rule because humans are imperfect and we won’t all see eye to eye on important things) and above all if you’re believers (I’m assuming) and know that this would be you walking in the will of the Lord, there’s no reason to hesitate simply because of society. :) I was 18 when I got engaged and married. He proposed a month after my 18th birthday and we got married 6 months later! It was easier than most for us to get married young because my husband had already bought a house earlier as a business thing (rented it out) + future plans for us, and had a stable job so it wasn’t too hard. But right after we got married we lived in our house for a month or two after God called us to open up this coffee shop, and we decided it would be wisest to stay with his parents and rent out our home until we can start this up, so we were right back at the beginning living pay-check by pay-check with big dreams and the world telling us we’re crazy. I’m 19 now and he’s 23 and we’re hitting our first year of marriage, we run our coffee shop business + my wedding photography business, we have a little angel baby in heaven and we’re doing life together one step at a time with the Lord, still living with his parents (we’re at the shop from morning till midnight so it works perfectly for us to simply have a place to sleep for now) and saving up for another home, and even if we look insane to the world I know we’re walking with Jesus and that’s all that matters, His ways are always greater than ours and walking by faith in Him is the greatest adventure. He is our security. Had I listened to those (far away but) around me, I wouldn’t be where I am now. I praise God both of our families were encouraging and supporting our marriage and business ventures, I know not everyone has that kind of support, but at the end of the day it’s between you guys and the Lord. :)

greatpudding asked:

1, 5, 13 and 20 ô‿o

1. The person I like and why I like them.

I’m not sure what type of like but I really like my moirail! we have been friends for 4 years now and nobody knows me like Hanan does (also because he has a lot of blackmail material on me). <> <> <>

5. Weird things I do when I’m alone.

I’d do the weirdest stretching pose and usually I’d bend back as low as I can and moaned blissfully hehe

13. One person from tumblr I’d throw off a cliff, one I’d marry, and one I’d fuck.

I’d throw nikshazana off a cliff to bECOME THE ALPHA NANA //okno

I’d marry charm0nder for their extraordinary fanfics idek I’m in love with fthasomp and ftmasodp hhhhshshh

I’d fuck neither since I don’t know any of them well enough aHAHAHA

20. Press ctrl+v and post.

https://soundcloud.com/core-ridor/will-this-is-be-how-my-music-career-goes?fb_action_ids=845536498817101&fb_action_types=soundcloud%3Apublish

this… this is a ‘lori tilam’ dubstep my friend made…

These Are Actually Good Questions

people keep asking me ‘do you still talk to that guy?’ and it just feels like such a cold disservice to our relationship. my best memories are with him. he’s the only person i can say i’ve really ever been in love with. he’s still one of my best friends. just because we can’t have the same kind of relationship that we used to doesn’t mean that i’m trying to completely remove him and erase the past 2.5 years of my life….

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Awesome WOD over lunch!

The deadlifts went pretty quickly at 185#, but those HSPUs were tough. I’ve kinda lost a little bit on that front. After baseball season ends I’m going to get back to powerlifting.

I really enjoyed talking to my friend Anna after the WOD. We’ve been talking about Matthew Vines’ book God & the Gay Christian. Like me, she and her partner of 5 years have experienced a lot of hurt because of who they are.

We’re all looking for a church home. Like me, she and Laura went to the Church at Brook Hills for a long time, but in her words she felt awful every time she went. The beat down at that church was relentless. Even when he wasn’t preaching on marriage/sexuality David would manage to get a dig in at LBGTQs.

Anna knows my whole story and knows about my excommunication from Oak Mountain. She is a good friend who understands and sympathizes. In fact, her partner struggles to reconcile who she is in some of the same ways my old buddy did. We’ve talked about the arguments my old buddy and I used to have over who we were and what we were doing. It’s good to have someone that really understands that.

We’re all out of town this weekend, but we’re all going to start trying churches together. That will be really fun. We’re all of us very conservative theologically, and I think we’re on the same page. It should be really good for us.