4 main phases of twinflames relationship:

A Twinflame relationship is not all ‘perfect’, as one might expect, especially in the beginning. They have many obstacles, these may be age, geographic locations, beliefs, race, income brackets…

There are four main phases that usually resonate with all twinflames in some way.

Phase One – The Preparation
This phase comes before you meet your twinflame.

What happens in this phase :

*Karmic Relationships
There are one or few seriously devastating relationships. These begin with strong emotions and end painfully. These are called Karmic relationships.

*Emptiness and Strong desire for ‘The One’

After you’ve been through the Karmic relationships, you’ll have a very deep yearning or desire to find ‘The One’.

Phase Two – The Meeting
This is the phase when you meet your twinflame for the first time (in this incarnation).
You might try to resist at this point but you will fall for him/her anyway.

What happens In this Phase:

*The first meeting
You’ll meet your twinflame in unusual circumstances or at some unexpected place.
(A place where you would not expect meeting your life partner/soulmate)
You’ll find this person somehow ‘special’ at this point. Even though you might not even think of them as a partner.

*The initial attraction
You’ll soon find yourself being attracted to your twinflame.
You might not be ready for a relationship (because of the karmic relationships that you’ve been through) and so you might try to resist this attraction.
You’ll fall anyway. Deeply in love.

After the initial attraction, You’ll find yourself in a deeply romantic relationship.
You’ll find all that you want in your partner and much more.
This is what the Twinflame relationship is actually supposed to be like.
And this is what it becomes ( if not better ) after you get through the problems that surface in the next phase.

Phase three – The Dance – Resolving what is known as the Karma

In this phase, all the accumulated negativity and lower emotions come to surface.
This lets them achieve higher energy levels so that they can ascend in bliss together.
This is also the phase where both twinflames get spiritually enlightened.
This is when they search and find the spiritual reality.
If you’re currently in a Twinflame relationship, you’re probably in this phase (As This is the period of time when you usually begin finding information on this).

What Happens in this Phase:

 *Arguments / Fights
This phase brings many arguments and fights.
This happens because the negativity that each partner is carrying within (usually at a subconscious level) comes to surface.
The twinflame will reflect this like a mirror and so you’ll think its in them, when in reality its in you.
This begins the deep cleansing process.

*The blame game
Each twinflame sees their own negativity and clutter in their twinflame.
Also, deep seated fears and frustrations surface.
So you think its happening because of the other and start blaming each other.
You consciously might not realize it but this is clearing all your clutter which is a good thing.

*The runner and the Chaser.
The arguments and the Blaming causes a lot of confusion (because usually the spiritual process is not understood by the conscious mind, as we are conditioned to trust logic more that feeling)

One twinflame, at this point, takes the role of the ‘Runner’ (which is usually the man)
The Runner tries to avoid the partner and runaway from the relationship.
This happens because the runner doesn’t consciously know what is going on and feels like he’s losing control.

The other twinflame, now, becomes what I call the ‘Chaser’ (usually the woman)
The Chaser is spiritually more aware than the runner at some level and tries to ‘chase’ or ‘run after’ the runner.
Chaser feel the need to understand what really is happening and so they start searching or reading about it.

This usually leads to the enlightenment of the Chaser.
The Runner becomes spiritually enlightened too, either through the chaser’s conscious effort, Or by receiving a ‘Soul Shock’ when the Chaser gives up and goes away from the Runner Twinflame.

The Phase gets stretched longer the more the Runner runs.
Ultimately, the runner does return and the Karma is finally fully resolved.

Phase Four – The Reunion

This is the phase of the reunion.
This is when the split soul becomes One again.
This happens first at the level of the soul and then in the physical plane.
The reunion happens when both the partners are fully aware of the spiritual reality.

The Eternal Twin Flame - The lack of understanding that our souls have been separated into two counterparts, when coming into the physical plane, is what creates a longing for union. In fact all it takes is a ease, or letting go, an acceptance  and a clearing; thus raising the consciousness high enough to feel the divine connection and completion once again. It’s a gift to have this experience of separation and thus a coming together into true illuminated divinity.

Awakening to our true spiritual nature takes us on a inner journey that leads to the opposite of separation, which is reunion. As you can well imagine, reunion brings with it feelings of love, joy, bliss and ecstasy. At that moment, the soul begins to crave oneness with its Source. Part of this hunger will be satisfied by reunion with our twin flame. ♥ This is when the journey home to our Source begins in earnest.


Our twin flames are the other half of us, but the masculine and feminine vibrations are wholes within themselves.
You feel like you’ve known him/her forever even if you’ve just met a few weeks or months back.
A realization that this isn’t the first time the two of you have met (past life experiences).
Your actions and words seem sort of ‘synchronized’
Both of you might say the same thing at the same time often.
You might both send a message at the same exact moment.
You  may discover that you have been drawn to the same tastes in art or have been drawing the same symbols long before your Twin Flame reunification.

You may find that certain dates in your lives, birthdays or the even the day you met, will fit perfectly into the Fibonacci Sequence or the number 11 : 11
Upon connecting with your twin flame or soulmate, you may find that you are practically mirror images of one another and that you may want to even run from him/her because of the things you see in yourself from the reflection of his/her eyes.

You may meet through unusual circumstances that were totally unplanned and unexpected.

Sometimes it takes time for twin flames to trust in the love. It came about immediately and so intensely that often it goes beyond logic which we are taught to trust in rather than emotion and intuition. Many twins feel the transformatin happening within them, as they awaken more and more to their soul-consciousness, but try to fight it because they are afraid of the unknown. They are happy at how they had made sense of the world - it fits into most other people’s views too. They wonder how they could survive if they suddenly allowed themselves to trust in intuition and soul and spirituality. Won’t people think they are mad? Won’t they lose friends and even family? What if they are married, won’t their husbands/wives think them mad or bad? They feel so alone, so confused and think they are mad. So they run, to save themselves the trouble.

When twin flames run, they are really running from THEMSELVES. They are us, we are them, and the connection highlights the parts of us that need working on and “fixing” in order to become our true selves again (united as one).

Twin Souls Explained (Masculine & Feminine)

Twin Soul Relationships

The final division of the soul that took place eons and eons ago could be likened to the separating of a magnet into two separate pieces. Each piece would be predominately one polarity or the other but a residual amount of its opposite essence would always be present within itself. So it is with the divided twin (soul). The masculine half has always retained some of the original feminine energy that the soul first possessed while the feminine half still holds onto a part of the masculine essence it once was united with. Since that time we have roamed around in this incomplete state of being experiencing life after life and relationship after relationship until we decide we’ve had enough and want something more fulfilling. In order for that to happen each twin must first achieve a balance of masculine and feminine essence within themselves and bring that balanced energy to each other to complete the whole.

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It was the pure Language of the World. It required no explanation, just as the universe needs none as it travels through endless time. What the boy felt at that moment was that he was in the presence of the only woman in his life, and that, with no need for words, she recognized the same thing. He was more certain of it than of anything in the world. He had been told by his parents and grandparents that he must fall in love and really know a person before becoming committed. But maybe people who felt that way had never learned the universal language. Because, when you know that language, it’s easy to understand that someone in the world awaits you, whether it’s in the middle of the desert or in some great city. And when two such people encounter each other, and their eyes meet, the past and the future become unimportant. There is only that moment, and the incredible certainty that everything under the sun has been written by one hand only. It is the hand that evokes love, and creates a twin soul for every person in the world. Without such love, one’s dreams would have no meaning.
—  Paulo Coelho, The Alchemist

The Twin Flame is  a direct aspect of yourself. It is a part of the androgynous Higher Self. When the soul incarnated to the physical realm it either left one perfectly matching, yet opposing, counterpart in the higher realms; or the division brought two separated beings to the physical world to join again at some point.

Twin flames hardly need to speak the words “I love you”, knowing as surely as they do that they must belong to each other whether in this present incarnation (lifetime) or (due to karmic complication) at the end of many more centuries…The words in the marriage cermony “those which God hath joined together, let no man asunder” refer to such as these…Yet this warning is unnecessary, simply symbolic ritual, for no man can break the tie between Twin flames, not even themselves…Nor can any energy in the Universe…The Force that created them is all-powerful and indestructible…The bond may be weakened, their final union and consummation delayed, but they cannot be separated permanently…There can be no end to the kind of happiness they may claim…when they wish to do so…on a timetable dictated by the Free Will choice of the Higher Angels of their own selves… This kind of instant magnetic attraction is often called “love at first sight” which is no accident of fate, but very real…It’s more than curious coincidence that Twin flames, out of the whole huge world, should be drawn together at the appointed time…The crossing of their paths has been predistined on a Higher Level of Awareness…Certain spiritual energies are at work to bring about their meetings, as surely as the migration of birds and the return of comets are governed by a similar Universal Law…Their coming together is controlled by the workings of Karma, which is but the sum total of Causes set into motion in the Past–and these determine infallibly the conditions of the Present…when the time comes for Twin flames to incarnate, they are sent to Earth, clothed in flesh (the bodies being the Temples of the soul) through particular Time-Energy Forces, at the moment in Earth Time when certain planetary configuarations create the proper conditions…These Time-Energy Forces are electromagnetic in nature, yet more complex than this…Linda Goodman~Shared by Liora