I’ve done some research on Tumblr and it looks to me like Tumblr greatly exaggerates (for the MOST PART there are exceptions) how much a SB should get from an SD! Although numbers are rarely discussed, it is implied that Louboutin, Valentino, and Cartier are common and plentiful gifts which leads you to assume this girl is getting more than $4k a month. I also just saw a post the other day saying a girl got $20k randomly from her SD. I can tell you right now that’s BS.
I straight up asked on reddit what the financials are usually like. They asked me these questions:
“1) Are you in a big city or small city? Big cities = higher allowance.
2) How hot are you? Self-explanatory.
3) How old / good looking is your SD? This isn’t as important to some, but for a decent number of SB’s they
will lower their price for younger, fitter SD’s and raise it for old
4) How socially competent is your SD? Is he married? Many SB’s I’ve spoken with are turned off by guys who are socially
awkward, and so they might have to pay more. Some SB’s will not see
5) How often do you meet? You’re being paid for your time, so 2 times a month versus 4-5 times a month is different allowance.“
I will use myself as an example when I answer these questions, and try to guess my allowance.
1) Are you in a big city or small city?
small city an hour away from a big one
2) How hot are you?
3) How old / good looking is your SD?
39, pretty good looking.
4) How socially competent is your SD? Is he married?
Not married, pretty socially competent.
5) How often do you meet?
3-4 times a month.
What did you guess, 6k? 4k? Guess again, 2k. Do you feel bad for me? Tumblr makes this seem dirt cheap. Believe it or not, Reddit said 2k/mo + hundreds of dollars of gifts is GOOD! For my situation, that is. I was under the impression that I had a bad arrangement before I hit Reddit but now I don’t feel that bad about it. Reddit had a bunch of SDs who paid 1-2k a month on there, so if you’re in that boat you’re not alone! I didn’t see ANY that paid 6k a month!! (6k was my goal…I guess I’ll still strive for the top but now I know it’s not as mainstream.)
Feel free to rebuttle but this is just what I found out. Numerous babies and daddies alike told me my arrangement was a good deal. Just wanted to spread the word.