ira, are there identities that "aren't trans enough"? im having a lot of issues w my own id, where i don't... i know im not cis, but... idk, im really confused & v self critical, that idk what! like... specifically, i id as gendervoid, i think, for a time, you did or still do, im not sure, sorry for bringing it up if so,,,, but im just tired of being confused or idk.... im sorry if dont sound sincere, im just really bad at words... sorry, thank you for answering me, if you do.
here’s the deal: at least imo, the second u start thinking u might not be cis, yr probably trans, and once yr trans there is no “enough”
gender is made up anyway!!!!!! and people who try to enforce boundaries on it are accomplishing nothing but hurting ppl who are trying to figure out who they are
if u don’t feel like yr birth assignment fits, even a little bit, u can call yrself trans. and there’s no “more trans” or “less trans!!” theres no trans hierarchy from “kinda trans” to “THE MOST TRANS!!!” (except for me, archprince of darkness, because i am here to win)
i do still id as gendervoid!! tho for clarity’s sake i usually just say agender. if u want me to talk more abt what gendervoid/agender means to me, i can do that, but i dont want u to think that u have to like….compare yr feelings 2 mine 2 see if they “fit” bc all of these words can mean different things to different ppl and we dont have to experience being gendervoid in the same way
basically: anyone who tries 2 make u feel like u “arent trans enough” is a dickhead and i’ll fight them if u want