Went to Evelyn and Sean’s house warming last night. Over all it was really fun, I missed Travis pretty bad because seeing everyone that knew him before they knew me made it hit me harder that he is over in the middle east. Had one of the most awkward wives I have ever had the displeasure of meeting crash the party. She was Evelyn’s “neighbor,” when in reality the house was up the street and nearly 6 addresses over. Yes, a neighbor but not right next to her like the way she portayed to those at the party.
At first it was like, oh great, well I’m glad her neighbors are really friendly then low and behold this girl started getting incredibly inappropriate, I asked a few questions regarding who she is, her background, her husband, if she had any children etc. She was from Colorado, 20, has a husband who’s MOS is supply, has a 9 month old child, and they are all up the street in the house because her husband “doesn’t drink.” She was flirting and touchy with every single guy at the party, and each time she wouldn’t receive the attention (I’m sure she normally gets by doing this) she would hop and move on to the next guy.
It even went as far as her walking up to one of our friends Nuwassa, who’s married, and Marci (the wife) was at the party and said, “Who are the single guys at this party?” (tells her to chill the hell out) and then she says, “Well, hey I don’t want you to take this the wrong way or anything but you are a really attractive black man. I just thought I would let you know.” Then she was eyeing Sean and wouldn’t leave this poor guy named Jordan alone. And Jordan is such a great guy. He’s married to a girl in Florida, and supported her move back to Florida to finish up her schooling while he does his duty out on CP. This girl was throwing herself at this poor guy and he every single time would move away or be completely non-responsive even with the extreme amount of alcohol he had consumed. It was so refreshing to see that.
I was afraid of drama escalating at the party, it was eventual that one wife was going to snap on this girl so I played buddy buddy and was like “We should totally kick it later down the road what’s your address again?” She tells me, I look at Marci and tell her “Problem is soon to be solved I shall return!” And run off. I was like bounding between cars it was fucking hilarious, on top of that I was in Trav’s flannel camo pajamas HAHAHA! I get to the house, ring the doorbell, and it goes from there.
That poor guy. He was seriously such a nice guy and I can’t believe he has to deal with that girl. He said that, “There has been trouble in paradise for awhile now. I have heard rumors, just never was able to hear it during her inappropriate actions. I haven’t been able to see it first hand either.” I told him that it is all one sided and that the guys at the party have been very considerate about her marital status and haven’t been condoning or encouraging any of her actions. He was very respectful, and appreciative of that information. He even shook my hand! We devised a plan for me to return to the party and him to come over in 5-10 minutes so it’s not obvious that I got him to come over. And sure enough when he did get there she was all over Jordan again and Jordan was trying his hardest not to embarrass her but trying to get her to back off when they were playing beer pong.
Steve introduced himself to everyone at the party and as far as the whole “Oh he doesn’t drink that’s why he isn’t here right now” is concerned, complete bullshit because he kicked back a couple of beers. He was able to observe her behavior without her being aware of his presence and I can say one thing with 100% no doubt he was NOT happy with how she was acting. Everything was done perfectly, when he finally started to walk towards her the look on her face was “OH SHIT I JUST GOT CAUGHT” she was trying to act all lovey dovey and we could all tell she was scared shitless of how long he had been there. After about 10 more minutes he whisked her away, problem solved. Too funny, Marci, Evelyn, Sean, Don, and Jordan were like holy fuck you’re like 007 Aisha over here hahaha
The only thing I didn’t like to much about that night is the fact that Evelyn and Marci bombarded me on the stairs. We were all laughing about the wife situation and talking about Military/Law Enforcement/CIA/FBI stuff and Evelyn smacked my forearm where the bruising is at and I yelped which made her pull up my shirt and see the bruising and scratches. She knew Travis was really difficult the night of Kelsey’s party but the bruising set her off. She was not happy, and I have to admit I don’t feel safe at time when I’m around him. Especially when he drinks. This time away will definitely give me time to reflect on things that need to change, and the steps to that change, or I will have to walk away. I hate that, and it hurts. Because I do love him. So much, but when problems are addressed it can’t be fixed for a few days to a few weeks and then go right back to old things. I have never wanted to hit Evelyn so badly in my life with some of the things she was saying. I was shaking so hard and she definitely exercised my power of self control.
Anyway, the whole theory of “The more I drink the more cups I sink” still stands. I was kicking royal ass at beer pong. It was so much fun. There was Grey Goose, Crown, Kraken, and this liquor called Kinky. We played mixed drink/liquor pong and I kicked off the drinking session with a big ass can of OE, which made the guys look at me like are you fucking serious!? I hope to God I can go to parties like that at least a couple times a month. Over all it was a blast. Evelyn fell asleep around 1:30, Rheil, Don, and Jordan stayed up till around 5:45 and we were bullshitting and watching some crazy ass old 90’s movies and sipping on some shit and eating pizza roles. I wish he could have gone, it was definitely a nice time. We went and got McDonald’s in the morning, then Evelyn and I passed the hell out after we stuffed our faces. I’m about to start studying again, and hopefully make a big enough dent to secure the fact that I’m not to far behind even though I really am.
I’ve been able to talk to Travis through Voxer at least. I’m so grateful for that because I’ve been a ball of nerves every time I think about him being over there. I already sent off a letter and the care package should be coming his way relatively soon as well. The one thing I have to admit that really bothers me and bothers me even more because he knows it bothers me, is the fact that he openly posts his address on his wall and I have girls I’ve never met before telling him they will send a package to him or girls I have met and do not like. Like Chyanne for instance. I’m being selfish probably but I think it should be the family, his guy friends, and the wife sending packages that’s about it. Shannon is the only exception to that rule because she basically is family even though I have had my wtf moments with her. He knows it bothers me, we have been over this on the last deployment. I just don’t want to cause more stress on him by re-stating it to him. I swear sometimes he just does thing purposely that bother me to get a reaction out of me.
As far as health concerns go, got some pretty bad joint pains after 2 am this morning didn’t go away till I noticed they were gone waking up around 10. I think the tumor is growing back in my breast. And my back is still giving me issues along with my knee. OoO la la!!!!