The Fault in Our Stars (2014)

I am in love with you, and I know that love is just a shout into the void and that oblivion is inevitable and that we’re all doomed and there will come a day when all our labor has been returned to dust and the sun will swallow the only earth we’ll ever have and I am in love with you.

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cottonbutterflies said:

At first I found your post really offensive because I thought you meant "sissy" as in effeminate. I thought you was being sexist and slightly homophobic, but I did find the post actually really sexist. I haven't really came across many "daddy" blogs or "sissy boys" but I've encounted so many females sexualising the Lolita fashion as well as Japanese. I think people just need to be more aware that it's not just one gender that is doing it. If there wasn't a fem-slave blogger there isn't a daddy.

As far as I’m aware, Sissy boys don’t have a female counterpart the way female slaves and male dominants do; their kink isn’t to dominate/be dominated, but to dress up in pink dresses and asking people of all genders if their dicks are girly enough. No kidding, I literally had a sissy boy send me a bunch of asks asking me to reblog him, flashing his dick from beneath his tutu skirt, asking if it’s cute. This has literally only happened with sissy boys, and both me and my girlfriend have been reblogged by sissy bloggers, as well as other tumblr users. My girlfriend has a sissy blogger who constantly reblog her outfits, saying that she’s such a cute little boy, despite telling him not to.

Just because you personally haven’t been reblogged and fetishizes by a sissy doesn’t mean it doesn’t happen or that our rage isn’t justified because it happens on a daily basis with my girlfriend. If you haven’t seen a lot of daddy and sissy bloggers, that’s probably because you’re not a victim of them. I’ve been reblogged by a bunch of daddy bloggers with comments such as “good girl waiting for her daddy” and more creepy stuff. I’ve seen my girlfriend reduced to fap-fodder by sissy boys. I have NEVER been dehumanized, sexualized and fetishized the same way by a girl.

If you haven’t noticed a bunch of daddy and sissy bloggers, that just makes you fucking lucky for not having them waiting for the chance to reblog every outfit photo you post so they can fap off to it.

You think it’s sexist of me calling daddy bloggers and sissy boys out (when I didnt even say they, exclusively, are the only people doing bad things)? You know what’s sexist, homophobic, misogynistic and transmisogynistic? Reducing a pansexual girl, who’s in a relationship with another girl, into fap-fodder, assuming she’s a dude bc that turns you on and bc you think thick eyebrows = dude, sexualizing her because she wears pink dresses and calling her a shy little melancholic boy because you get off to that idea.