Talking to Me 101.
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    Talking to me 101. :)

    I’m doing something a little different today for my blog because I don’t feel like talking about my day today. I’ll get to that sometime soon. :)

    1. One sure way to make me not want to talk is to talk over me.
    2. Don’t try to pry something out of me, if I need to say something I’ll do with without help, if I don’t want to say something i’m not going to so don’t even try.
    3. Don’t sugar coat things, and don’t patronize me, it’s annoying and I know when people do it, I’m not dumb.
    4. Don’t be afraid to talk about anything you want to talk about. I don’t care if I don’t know much about the subject, I like to learn about new things. :)
    5. If you don’t want to talk about something don’t bring it up, or quickly change the subject. I’ll get the message. Or if I do it just tell me that you don’t want to talk about whatever it is.
    6. Try to keep small talk and stereotypical girl talk to a minimum… PLEASE! It’s nice and all, I just get ticked off when it becomes the whole conversation. I really like structure and depth.
    7. If you don’t have anything to say, don’t try to talk to me, it’s okay if you just say hi and just walk away. I don’t like awkward moments where the other person is trying to think of something to say, if it’s me i’ll just cut the conversation off.
    8. Don’t try to make conversation at church, that’s my me time and I don’t feel like talking to anyone usually. A simple hi, or how are you doing is fine. :)
    9. I never talk unless if I actually have something to say, and I never start small talk so don’t expect it unless if i”m really desperate. (not likely haha). In fact I am almost never the one that starts the conversation, so don’t rely on me to do that.
    10. I’m sorry if I ever come out too bold or don’t have enough tact, it’s okay to tell me if I say things too strong, I am knowingly a very bold and outspoken person.
    11. I like the truth, even if it hurts, no sugar coating please, it only makes me irritated.
    12. Polotics wil not be tollerated in a one on one conversation with me, never going to happen, so don’t try and if you do keep it short.
    13. I don’t mind talking about religion, just don’t bash mine, because I won’t bash yours, I do like to learn about other religions, but keep in mind that I really like my faith and nothing you say will convert me to yours. People have tried, don’t waste your time.
    14. If I say I need alone time I really mean it and trying to talk to me is going to be futile because my alone time is very important to me. Unless if you REALLY need me, then I’ll try. :)
    15. Don’t be afraid to invite me to parties and stuff like that, I like them every once in a while, just not all the time. I only have so much energy. :)
    16. Don’t ask me to hang out when you first start talking to me, I require some time before I feel comfortable with such things. I am a bit weary of getting close to people, so don’t go to fast or you will scare me away
    17. NEVER confess to me right off the bat, talk to me and take it slow, if you go to fast I will retract and I won’t want to be near you for a while. I get easily scared off by such things.
    18. Don’t be afraid to be silly, or weird around me, I like energetic and unique people. :)
    19. Keep in mind that I am an introvert. Introverts have nothing to do with shyness, I am not shy, I just simply don’t like to talk a lot. I recommend reading this if you don’t understand. :)

    http://www.carlkingdom.com/10-myths-about-introverts


    and this


    http://giftedkids.about.com/od/socialemotionalissues/tp/introverts.htm



    20. If I forgot anything or if you have something to say to me don’t hesitate to leave a comment.

    Extra just for xanga:

    21. I usually do not reply or even look at my private messages. It’s just not something I think about. :)

     

So basically my friend and I put on bitchy American accents sometimes and talk about how we want to go to all these made up places in the “mall” like “Yesterday’s” and I always used to say, “Augh mah Gahd, let’s go to Forever 21,” and I thought it was made up until I saw someone post a picture of a clOTHES STORE AND IT’S CALLED FOREVER 21 AND IT’S AMERICAN I JUST I CAN’T ASDFGHJKL LITERALLY NO HOW-

I Was Sick...

Wow so I was sick for the first time in AGES. I usually never get the flu, but I caught it about 2 days ago. It’s gone now but I was pretty drained for a couple of days and didn’t feel like posting. Earlier this week the rest of my family caught it before I did. I usually am the one that misses it entirely even though if the whole family gets sick I usually never catch it.  About Tuesday night I was starting to feel sick, around midnight. i just kind of dismissed it as not getting enough sleep because that has happened before. When I don’t get enough sleep sometimes.

the whole night I was having sick dreams mixed with dreams about Destiny Online, and some other world I just guess I made up in my head. There were random things like rainbows out of nowhere, and I remember through the whole time I was sleeping the one thing I was thinking about even in my dreams is that I was probably or about to throw up. At about 6:30am I woke up and I was feeling pretty bad then. I went to the bathroom and let it all out. I must have thrown up like 4 times before I tried to stop it.  I cleaned it up the best i could after that. I hit me about a minute later that I was sick. I was a bit baffled by this because I usually never catch anything my family catches. I supposed it was bound to happen sometime. 

So, the last two days have been a mix of drinking Gatorade, eating crackers, watching movies, anime, playing Destiny Online, sleeping, and listening to music. I didn’t really feel like doing much else. I did’t have the energy to get on Xanga and post even though I thought abut it multiple times. So that has been my last two days. I did get married on Destiny Online. The guy I got married to on the game is just a friend of course. ha ha.  Here is a few pictures from the wedding! (This happened yesterday night).

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If you want to see more photos of this or me in game in general you will have to go here. »> Starya Destiny

Anyway, those are just a few screenshots I took for my friends that missed it.

Nothing much has happened today. i tired to eat regular food today, it seems to be going pretty well. I’ve already eaten Rice Chex and a Yogurt successfully. I just woke up from a nap. I’ve just been playing games all day and working on writing. Not much to share right now at the moment. :)

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