I am dreading his trip.
I called him the other day to tell him how I was feeling with the hope that he would just cancel his trip, but I wasn’t so lucky. I told him that I wasn’t feeling the same as I was before and whatever we are just feels more like a friendship now rather than a…whatever it was we were doing before. He was very certain that as soon as I see him all of these feelings will come back to me and I will remember the way things used to be. Ugh. I decided that was a good time to let him know that we haven’t exactly been on the same page.
He asked if there were other guys and I was honest. I told him that I’ve been dating people here, and I was dating people when we were still in school too. Then he asked me if I’d slept with anyone else (HAHA) and I said yes but wouldn’t tell him how many because that’s not his business. I thought he was going to cry. Poor Frat Daddy. Instead of getting the reaction I was hoping for - a canceled trip - he decided to tell me that he also slept with someone else…mmhm sure he did. I don’t buy it, but I also don’t care.
I made it really clear that I just wasn’t feeling it, and that if he decided to still come up here then he would have to respect my feelings, or lack thereof. He still persisted that I’d feel the feels as soon as I saw him, but I think we all know that there were never really any feelings there. He and I hooked up a lot and it was convenient, but there was no romance. I was pining over someone else. When I told him that all we did was hook up he then asked why we couldn’t just continue to sleep together when he came to visit…um…
That comment really pissed me off so I hung up to go over to the Southern Gent’s (who had been sexting me during the entire Frat Daddy convo).
I think I’m just going to have to suck it up and host him for a week, but it’s going to be terrible.