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mylastrefrain asked:

To the person asking if it's ok to reblog thing when they're not autistic. I like it when non-autistic people reblog accurately autistic things. It means they’re learning not to believe the bullshit that organisations such as autism speaks spreads and want to help raise awareness about the truth of autism. Post what you want. It’s your blog. I'm getting sick of all the exclusion.

answering this publically as a teaching moment

- our posts are not for allistics. not everything has to be for everyone. setting aside content for marginalised groups that don’t usually get any content (i.e. autistic people) is not exclusion.

- the majority of relatable text posts on this site are made by allistics, for allistics. the purpose of this blog is somewhere autistic people can go to find posts they can relate to. allistics don’t need that space. for allistics, that space is the whole damn site.

- you can read & understand & learn from a post without reblogging it

- i don’t understand why everyone is so hung up on needing to reblog things. reblogging it doesn’t unlock some higher level of understanding or transport it into some magical storage area of your brain. reblogging it might make it easier to find, but our blog is tagged & our blog shows up on google search results (tip: add “site:thatautismfeel.tumblr.com” to your search).

- i’m glad people are using our blog to teach themselves about autism, but if they want to “help raises awareness”, they can make their own post & link us in it. they can reblog resources posts.

- there is no reason for allistics to reblog our posts

- our posts are not made for them

- saying that is not exclusion. not everything has to always be for everyone.

Sometimes I think about the transgirl!Mabel headcanon and then I think about how Pacifica insulted Mabel’s name and she (Mabel) was able to remain positive about it, even though that was the name she picked out for herself and was thus an extremely important part of her identity as a child trying to understand her gender and then I feel things on the inside

please note.

i am not a robot ( not matter how much i wish it so ) , i have my own battles & things to get through & I really need everyone to understand that i have a hard time with sudden friendship & plotting. if i am buried too quickly under affection & love, i will RUN & i will feel stressed & burdened because i want to make everyone happy & by doing that i hurt myself? my fear of bonding then rolls over into my muse / writing & it makes my time less enjoyable. so just fyi, if we don’t know each other at all please do not spam me with questions especially if i haven’t answered you yet ( or if it’s only been an hour or so ) i promise i will answer eventually!! & please i LOVE ships, but dislike talking smut until we’ve A ) plotted ic & ooc and B ) had a bit of time to rp & see where my muse fits with yours. sometimes no matter how great the ooc plot is, chemistry isn’t there & muses are lost & i just want ample time to create meaningful plots. 

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WOMEN CAN BE SEXIST

MINORITIES CAN BE RACIST

GAYS/TRANS/ETC CAN BE IGNORANT

ATHEISTS CAN BE BIGOTED

YOU ARE NOT EXCUSED.

this is a post i made about a year ago, and i’d like to amend it:

WOMEN CAN HAVE INTERNALIZED MISOGNY

POC CAN HAVE INTERNALIZED RACISM

LGBTQIA PEOPLE CAN DISCRIMINATE WITHIN THEMSELVES

ANYONE CAN BE CRUEL TO ANYONE ELSE

YOU ARE NOT EXCUSED.

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