My opinion and breakdown

Okay, so for those who do not know I’m pretty close with Sineka (aka mingteukies) and its understandable to be like, “hey, I don’t like your opinion and this is why… and this what I think..” but after that you need to stop. Do not shame Sineka, do not shame her family (in this case her sister), and just don’t be a little jerk about it.

Sineka does not like exo but does that mean she hates exo fans. Just the people who decide to be jerks and shove exo down her throat. If she hated all exo fans, we would not be friends. Sineka has a heart of gold and does not discriminate on anybody, but if you treat her like a jerk she will treat you the same back; especially if you attack her family, which any of us would defend.   

Everyone in the ELF fandom has been under stress lately due to the lack of attention our group has gotten and disappointment in those who leave the fandom for exo. You do not have to sympathise with us and I’m not asking you to. We will get through this as a fandom. All I’m asking for is a little respect. When you guys lack enthusiasm at the group’s concert you are there to see and get all rowdy for a group you did not pay to see it hurts. It hurts both the group and the fans. 

So next time you wanna reply to someone else’s opinion, you can just do it civilly and if you don’t like what’s being said just keep scrolling. If you are defending your fandom or yourself do it in a way that does not make the poster upset or just prove how bad your fandom is. What I’m trying to say through this long thing is just stop being 2 year olds over it and leave Sineka alone. She can say what she wants and so can you but next time if you are going to reply in a way that comes off mean or hurtful just shoot her an ask and talk her to like a rational human being. Thank you that is all. 

P.S. I’ll always have your back Sineka <3 stay strong girly. 

mingteukies said:

omg im sorry i accidently deleted your ask after reblogging the ming post orzz thank you its so sweet of you ;; <3 *hugs*

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omg you dont even know how happy i am right now just for the fact that you actually like it … thank god my work of 2 days has paid off !! unnie i love youuu ♥♥♥♥♥♥ *hugs back*

School is drowning all my energy and idk what to do anymore because I want to sleep for 24 hours straight but I need to study but I cant concentrate if I’m this exhausted but if I sleep for an hour or so I will feel even more tired (or I may not wake up, which is worse) and I feel like giving up all the time but I know I dont want to and I cant and at home everyone keeps arguing and uh…
I need some love and energy hugs.

Tagged by mingteukies~ ♥

1. Do you like SNSD?

Yes, especially Sooyoung!!

2. Who is your bias in SJ?

The most adorable and awkward being ;; ♥ you know this already xD

3. Are you kpopper or ELF?

ELF for sure ♥

4. What do you think you will do in 10yrs time?

Dunno… Hopefully have a better life? xD

5. Introvert or extrovert?

Introvert at most.

6. What Bloodtype are you? (if you know it)

A! :D

7. Who is the cutest in SJ (BE HONEST)?

Kyuhyun(sorrrryyyy but yeah he is :P)

8. Do you ship girlxgirl pairings?

Not really, I mean I’m not into girl groups that much hehe

9. Can you draw?

………. just… a bit I guess?

10. The last song you just heard?

Shake It Up - SuJu ♥

Thank you munchkin ♥ Sorry but I won’t tag xD

mingteukies ha dicho: i was.. kind of surprised.. since i could always see his back side.. i was shocked he had a big one because i never paid attention to it for.. like all my years of loving him XD

No I did pay attention to it like once? “Oh, he has a nie butt” but that was all. You know, butts are not the thing I find the most important in a person, so I don’t know. 

His great butt is there tho and I love it.

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