Sexual and Gender Diversities: A Harry Style Opinion

I have seen a lot of anger and indignation over the past 24 hour directed at various people, such as thisiskatsblog, for daring to use the word “gay” in relation to dear Harold. Let me say right here and now that there are many sexual and gender possibilities; sexuality is a spectrum, not a fixed point; and that we can all agree that only Harry knows exactly how he identifies.

However, there are two things he has made clear this year:

  1. He is not bisexual (GQ Interview)
  2. His sexuality does not include women (yesterday’s interview)

All sexuality is a spectrum, like light itself. But like any spectrum, there are general umbrella groups. Magenta, Pink, Crimson, and “blood orange” are shades of color in their own right. But we can all agree that in the most basic umbrella terms, they are all Red. Calling them red does not diminish the brilliance of pink or the depth of crimson. 

Given that in Harry’s own words his sexuality seems to be exclusive to men, calling him gay does not diminish any other sexual or gender identity that might reside in a deeper level. It is not forcing anything upon him. When discussing gender and sexuality, umbrella terms like gay, lesbian, and bisexual are perfectly acceptable when talking in general unspecific terms. 

I know Trumblr prides itself on being politically correct and well informed; but the vitriol I have seen in the past 24 hours is simply stupid. Stop it! you’re better than that! This is our opportunity to have an intelligent discussion about important issues in our fandom and how we will react to them. Focusing exclusively on the specific terminology is simply an excuse to avoid facing the bigger issues. Harry Styles is not straight, and has no sexual interest in women. Get over it and stop trying to rationalize a scenario where you may still stand a remote chance.

At the end of the day we return to some simple fact that is as true today as it was four years ago: Unless you are a Louis Tomlinson, no one has the remotest chance in hell of getting anywhere near Harry.

Skinny girl diet

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è molto semplice devi rispettare un tot di calorie per tutti gli alimenti, eccetto che per frutta e verdura che puoi mangiare in grande quantità. 

Alcune persone che l’hanno seguita hanno perso tra i 5 e gli 8 kg.

SCUSATE IL RITARDO DELLA RISPOSTA E GRAZIE MILLE DEI COMPLIMENTI, A TUTTE MI DATE TANTA FORZA. GRAZIE, GRAZIE, GRAZIE!

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I’ve failed three times in the past when I tried doing the ABC Diet. It was really hard, obviously, and I’m a morbidly obese weak willed girl. 

So, to attempt to avoid setting myself up for failure, I’ve decided to attempt one of these. 

Would it be weak of me to do the “healthy” one where you’re actually allowed 1000cals+ or should I suck it up and go for the normal SGD? 

I see I have four followers. Please give me input. 

Thank you for not trashing me and talking me out of it. 

the crazy thing about pro-ana logic is that they’re kind of right when they say they don’t promote Anorexia Nervosa

i mean, all they post are diets and healthy-weight models and that’s not what AN is in the slightest

(disclaimer: using the “pro-ana” tag is still literally saying “i think anorexia is a GOOD THING” and that is still absolutely repulsive, you don’t get off that easy)

Sagittarius Second Decan: Born between December 3 and December 12

The second of the Sagittarius Decans has the planet Mars as its ruler. The second Decan Sagittarius personality is characterized by assertiveness, restlessness and openness. When you think you know what you want you are not afraid to act assertively and sometimes aggressively to get it. Trouble is you get bored easily and want to move on to next project, experience or relationship. Your restless nature leads you to explore and dip into many and varied interests but can make you a Jack of all trades and master of none. You love a challenge and are very spontaneous. So when someone suggests jumping from the high cliffs or streaking down the street you’re the first one to try it. Nothing is too outrageous or challenging for you to want to try. You are open, upfront and sometimes brutally frank. What you see is what you get with you. And you cannot understand or relate to people who play mind games, have hidden agendas or keep secrets.