Alex Turner’s “I have a new girlfriend” outfit.=> the shoes
I wanted to add to what you wrote yesterday like, I think women's experiences with gender non-conformativeness vary wildly through class, race, etc. I wear basically the same clothes you do, but I'm white and skinny, so I've never faced hostile or homophobic violence for it. I'm still catcalled and harassed frequently, but I think not as much as I'd be if I dressed in girl's clothes. But I agree with you in that this is too complex and it's reductive to think in terms of "who has more privilege"