What is a Sugar Baby?

"There are many, many factors that go into the definition of a sugar baby, but to strip it down to it’s most loose, basic terms - A sugar baby is a woman who agrees to be in a relationship with a man in exchange for money/gifts."

Common Sugar Baby Abbreviations:
SD - Sugar Daddy
SB - Sugar Baby
POT - Potential Sugar Daddy

Common sites used to search for a Sugar Daddy:
Seeking Arrangement (SA)
Sugar Daddy for Me (SD4M)
Sugar Daddie
Ashley Madison (AM)

*Tip: Don’t wait for messages to come your way. Message SD’s yourself. This increases your chances.

Profile Tips:

- Unfiltered/Edited photos. 
Preferably no duck faces, your photos send a message.

- Headline.
Reel ‘em in with something catchy. This is essentially a preview of you.

- Hobbies/Interest
Gives them something to connect with.

- Try not to write a novel. Say less with more.
- Grammar Check/Spell Check. Use them!
- Keep it positive.

Researching your Sugar Daddy:
Google. Search the following -

Phone #
First & Last Name - Try and find a Facebook, LinkedIn, etc.
Images - Save a photo and upload it to Google Images to find their photos on any other site the picture is affiliated with.

Spokeo. Search the following -

Phone #
First & Last Name

Further screening:

*Tip: Research is not something to slack on. I spend a lot of time doing this, searching for any red flags.

Informative Tumblr Hashtags:
#sugar advice
#sugar tips
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*Note: Each Sugar Baby has had different experiences therefore he/she may provide different advice. This is my advice from personal experience in the sugar bowl and what I found most helpful upon starting out.


Power of Faith

A man in Gaza was holding his son in his arms as missles dropped over homes around him. A journalist asked him why he was not frightened, and he replied so perfectly. 

He said, Allah swt has given us so many things: families, food to eat, a wife, friends, baraka, and we thank him in the times of good. And in the bad, we simply say Inna LilAhi wa Inna Ilahi Raje3oon. (From Allah we have come and to him we shall return). 

You cannot defeat a man happy to stare into a gun.