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anonymous asked:

It's just so hard when that's all I hear, I mean it's not even like I have other people in my life to tell me otherwise, my burning has been getting worse and more often and I just don't have the strength to stop. (Jen) -Rt8

Hi love, sorry for the late response!

Is it possible for you to try and meet new people, so you can make new friends and fill your life with people who will bring you up instead of beat you down? Like can you volunteer, join a club, join a sport, try online dating, get a part-time job, anything like that? Not only will those things be fun and good for you, but they will give you the opportunity to make new friends. Does anybody know about your self-harming? How long have you been self-harming for?

<3 Jen

RAN’s Rainforest Agribusiness Team Investigates Palm Oil Controversy in Indonesia by Rainforest Action Network on Flickr.

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RAN’s Rainforest Agribusiness team spent three weeks visiting some of Indonesia’s most controversial palm oil plantations in West Kalimantan, Borneo and meeting with Indonesian ally organizations such as Sawit Watch, Walhi and Lembaga Gemawan. The team also attended the annual Roundtable for Sustainable Palm Oil (RSPO) meeting in Jakarta to network with key industry players and help shape the discussions on the much needed reforms of the palm oil industry. Read more about the trip here.

anonymous asked:

No she outright said it more than once. And I made a risotto and then steak and chips and yeah I guess. (Jen) - Rt8

I’m sorry she’s said that to you, love. I think you’re more than good enough. I think your mother is just being way too hard on you. It sounds like she has impossible expectations, that no matter if you were the most perfect person in the world she still wouldn’t be satisfied. It has nothing to do with you: you’re not doing things wrong. Your mother is the one in the wrong for being so hard on you and having unrealistic expectations. And that sounds delicious :) The fact that you even made dinner is awesome! Not many kids make dinner for their family. Please try your best not to listen to your mother. You are good enough! Your mother seems like she is miserable and unhappy with herself so she is trying to bring you down with her. Please try your best not to listen to her. You are good enough, I promise!

<3 Jen

anonymous asked:

Well the fact that my mother tells me everyday that I'm not good enough, I tried to make dinner for everyone last night and even that isn't good enough for them, I just don't see the point anymore. (Jen) - Rt8

Hi love,

Did your mother actually say the words “you’re not good enough?” Or what does she do or say that makes you feel like you aren’t good enough? That was very nice of you to make dinner for everyone last night! What did you make?  Do you enjoy cooking?

<3 Jen

anonymous asked:

Ever get the feeling youre not wanted in your own home? Even my 4 year old sister says that she hates me. I give up. - Rt8

Hi love,

I’m sorry that you are feeling this way. Is there any reason you feel like you aren’t wanted in your own home? What’s going on that is making you feel this way? And I’m so sorry that your four year old sister says that to you. That must be so hurtful. But try to remember that little kids often say things they really don’t mean, especially during temper tantrums. I remember telling my mom I hated her when I was little quite a few times. Did I mean it? No, of course not. I was just really angry and throwing a tantrum. I don’t think your sister really hates you, she is just very young and still very immature. I know it’s hard, but whenever she says anything like that to you, try to remember that she probably doesn’t mean it!

<3 Jen