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anonymous asked:

Hi... I just wanted to say that I'm really disappointed in you, and tell you why I'm unfollowing you. You drew porn, and I found it incredibly offensive and demeaning towards women. It was an especially low blow because the Megidos are my favorite characters.

wait… wait. this is about my Aradia drawing? oh my GOD.

YES SHE IS NAKED BUT THAT DOES NOT IMMEDIATELY MEAN IT’S PORN?! HONESTLY LET ME TELL YOU HOW ABSOLUTELY FURIOUS THIS ASK MAKES ME.

FIRST OFF. I DID. NOT. DRAW. PORN. EVEN IF I DID THAT’S OKAY SOMETIMES ARTISTS DRAW PORN OKAY IT HAPPENS. THAT DOES NOT MAKE THEM SICK AND RAUNCHY IT MAKES THEM ARTISTS. SEX IS A NORMAL PART OF HUMAN LIFE OKAY. BUT I DREW A PICTURE FOR FIGURE DRAWING REFERENCE AND YES, SHE WAS NAKED. BUT THAT REALLY DOESN’T MAKE IT PORN. I WAS APPRECIATING THE HUMAN FIGURE FROM AN ARTIST’S POV. I WAS LITERALLY JUST PRACTICING DRAWING THE HUMAN BODY.

SECOND. DEMEANING TOWARD WOMEN? YOU KNOW WHAT’S DEMEANING? ASSUMING THAT CLEARLY BECAUSE CERTAIN PARTS OF A WOMAN’S BODY ARE EXPOSED CLEARLY OH SHIT IT MUST BE PORN. IF YOU REALLY WANT TO GO THERE, WHAT IF I PUT UP A DRAWING OF A TOPLESS MAN BESIDE A TOPLESS WOMAN? WHICH WOULD MAKE YOU MORE UNCOMFORTABLE. THE FEMALE FIGURE IS BEAUTIFUL AND I AM SO SICK OF THIS DOUBLE STANDARD BULLSHIT.

JUST BECAUSE AN ARTIST DISPLAYS NUDITY DOES NOT MEAN THEY ARE DRAWING PORN. EVEN IF THEY ARE, THAT’S OKAY!!! DRAWING PORN DOES NOT MAKE ARTISTS SHITTY PEOPLE!

UGH

All I want in life is to bump into a sweet stranger at a coffee shop and get to talking and realize we have a lot in common and read the same books then every so often we keep bumping into each other until they ask me out on a date and we’ll go to the pier and watch the ships come in and after the sun sets we’ll walk down to the beach and point out constellations then they’ll suggest night swimming and then I will rip off my skin and drag them into the depths and drown them while I have my way with them and eat the corpse to dispose of all evidence

anonymous asked:

I'm officially diagnosed and my counselor has stated many times that my coping via being fictionkin is not only common but normal, and the only way it can hurt the community is by people who are already ableist using it as ammo. So, where do you get off telling other people their coping methods are invalidated? Especially since 90% of the otherkin/fictionkin blogs people get angry at are troll blogs created by anti-kin people

I am not doubting the fact that you are diagnosed, nor am I telling you it is not normal. NOR have I said anything about invalidating any claims. All I expressed was my macaw’s displeasure at our speaking.

Now, I will express my displeasure with you. You can fuck right off. 

I’m about to go on a little rant here, so if you came to look for an argument now would be the time to find it. I have been officially diagnosed with BPD (among other stuff I won’t go into now), so I understand the split mind, believe me. But continuing to tear your mind apart by further indulging your disorder is not a HEALTHY coping mechanism. It is so hard for mentally ill people to receive the care they need, and the correct diagnosis because of 13 year old fucktards that watch 1 episode of an anime and decide they want to be an adorable little kittykin, for example. I’m not trying to mock the otherkin, and I honestly hope they get the help they need.

I know it’s hard to live in this society with a mind splitting disorder, and I know embracing your mind is the best way to figure out what’s wrong, but indulging your disorder, or claiming to have a disorder when you don’t is unhealthy and completely rude and insulting to the people who are suffering and trying to get better. So many doctors look the other way on disorders like these because of the amount of people who falsify their claims, or just take their disorder and eliminate near to all hope for improvement in their mental state. 

Too many people self diagnose, make false claims, or even take a real diagnosis and ride it out for the rest of their life like an excuse. And hey, if that’s the life they want to live I can’t stop them, and I’m not here to tell anyone what they can or can not do, but try not to make it harder for the rest of us on the way down.

Now if you reply to this post, try to actually read it word for word and hear what I’m saying, instead of pulling shit out of your ass to start a fight like you did from the last post. :)